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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #7171

      Want to be happy? Strip off and go naked

      Stripping off and going naked may be the key to happiness and well-being, research suggests.

      Yup, you heard us!

      You might think being naked surrounded by a group of total strangers would make you more self-conscious about your body.

      But it seems the opposite is true.

      This study, lead by Dr Keon West of Goldsmiths, University of London, suggests that taking part in nudist activities makes people much more satisfied with their bodies, and even their lives.

      It looks like the naturalists have been onto something and Dr. West seems to agree –  ‘The naturists have been saying this for some time

      Dr Keon West and colleagues asked 850 Brits to fill in an online survey, and found those who spend time naked were happier with their bodies, as he explain in the video below:

      [embed]https://vimeo.com/199688358[/embed]

      Dr West, argues that although more research is needed, the findings show public nudity is beneficial for our well-being. He also added that naturism offers a way out from body dissatisfaction. In short, being naked around other people may actually increase your self-esteem.

      Definitely, a study worth investigating.

      One Instagram page  Getnakedaustralia from Down Under is making waves by encouraging everyone to ditch the threads and enjoy beautiful landscapes the way nature intended – butt naked!

      Now plan a day out at your local nudist beach, it’s good for your overall happiness, doctors orders.

      What are your thought on this new study? Leave your comments below.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #7088

      14 Wildest Sex News Of 2016

      2016 has been a year that brought around more than we could bite. It was an interesting year, several beloved celebrities died;  Brexit threw the EU into turmoil, brought us the obsession with Pokémon and you know the rest.

      When it comes to sex news, it’s another story, with 2016 boasting a bonanza of sexual highlights. We’ve seen our attitudes shift, we’ve adopted new technologies, discovered new kinks and we publicly celebrate body positivity more than ever before.

      With the year coming to a close, it’s only right to reflect on some of the most interesting sex news we’ve seen.

      Here is a list of 14 wildest sex news of 2016:

      1. A Writer Had Sex With Her Husband Every Day For A Year

      Imagine if you decided to have sex every day in 2017 with your partner. What do you think would change? How would you and your relationship change for example? Last, could you even have sex everyday for starters? That’s what Brittany Gibbons, a blogger, set out to discover when she and her husband committed to having sex every day.

      2. Iskra Lawrence Helped Body Positivity Go Mainstream

      English model and activist Iskra Lawrence stripped down on a busy subway, as seen in the vid below, to prove a simple point: every human body is beautiful. In her own words: “Every single one of us has so much value and so much worth that is so much more than just skin.” Body positivity trended throughout 2016 and will surely be a continued conversation in 2017.

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnU_8VlemjE[/embed]

      3. PETA Made a Super Bowl Ad That Was Too Steamy For TV

      The activists from People For The Ethical Treatment of Animals made a Super Bowl commercial, that was deemed “too hot for television.”  They say vegans have better sex drive than meat eaters. Big statement but it comes to show that sex sells.

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coANMLRMirQ[/embed]

      4. Some Dancing Genitals Explained Consent

      Consent is often misunderstood, which is why the nonprofit Project Consent made an animated PSA to explain consent to America and the world in a series of small animated videos. They feature disembodied genitals and hands doing the dance of yes and no. Strange but it conveys its message well and that’s what’s important.

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtY7QeI_rCU[/embed]

      5. A Dude With a Bionic Penis Lost His Virginity

      Due to a tragic childhood accident that mangled his penis, Mohammed Abad was still a virgin at 43 years old. But thanks to the miracles of modern medicine, doctors were able to create and give Abad a bionic penis. After hearing his tragic story, dominatrix Charlotte Rose offered to help Abad lose his virginity – this has to be the best story of 2016.  Most recently, Bionic penis man inundated with sex requests.

      6. Science Confirmed that Couples Who Listen To Music Together Have More Sex

      Each year there are a ton of studies dedicated to sex. One of the studies this year reported that couples who listen to music together enjoy far more pleasurable sex lives. So get working on a good playlist to  seduce your partner.

      7. Rise of the Sexbots

      In 2016, pleasure robots made plenty of headlines. Whether it’s Scalett Johansson-lookalike sexbot, or Angelina Jolie-lookalike Lara Croft sexbot. It appears that  sexbots are going to be as common as microwaves and washing machine in the near future. Guess, we’ll have to wait till next year and see.

      8. Science Determined That Morning Sex is Good For You

      This year, we learned too many people are missing out on the magic of morning sex. Not only does it chill your mood for the day, it also floods your brain with feel-good chemicals and performance-boosters. Plus, soft morning light is flattering; and since men are visual creatures, light can make men perform better.

      9. Cunnilingus Was Determined to Be Good For a Man’s Health

      To be an expert cunnilingus will have women flood in and ensure your partner is satisfied. That’s not all the benefits, according to research, your vagina is full of the same probiotic bacteria that is packed into every health-conscious product from yogurt. And it’s just as good for you. So a mouthful of pussy is really good for you.

      10. Polyamory and Open Relationships Got Trendy

      Consensual non-monogamy is also on the rise among single people too. The next question to ask: What does it mean for society if open relationships are the new normal?

      11. Rough Sex Became Good For Your Brain

      According to the latest research, BDSM offers a ton of benefits for you brain. Kink is not only fun, sexy and thrilling, but it also lowers stress, increases arousal and can induce what scientists and athletes like to call “flow state.” For more on how to bring BDSM  into your bedroom read the article right here.

      12. Science Concluded That It’s Better For Women to Have Big Butts

      Leading researchers at Oxford University published a paper that determined it’s not only healthy, but naturally-advantageous for a woman to have a big butt. Looks like the big booty trend is taking off for a very good reason.

      phtotoshoot wiht my favorite photographer @ryanastamendiphotography

      A photo posted by Anastasiya Kvitko (@anastasiya.kvitko) on


      13. Fergie Released Her M.I.L.F. $ Video

      The Black Eyed Peas vocalist came back this year with a roar, releasing a super-sexy video for “M.I.L.F. $” It features her and a parade of seductive moms like Chrissy Teigen and Ciara showing off their M.I.L.F shake. But the real show-stopper is when Fergie and Kim Kardashian pour milk on themselves. Don’t ever say moms aren’t sexy

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsUWK-fixiA[/embed]

      14. Hef Let Go of the Mansion

      This year, Hef sold the Mansion for $100 million dollars to his neighbor, who agreed that Hef can continue to live there and enjoy all the parties he’s famous for hosting at his home.

      Which of these strange and sexy stories was your favourite?


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #7005

      If you like to swing, want to have continued success at swinging, you should read this.

      These are 7 deadly sins that will turn swingers off and avoid you like the plague.

      The art of seduction is a delicate beast and even when you do all the right things, one small oversight will screw things up.

      If you ever been on a swinger encounter where things were heating up and when things started to get juicy it died right in the ass. You have probably committed one or more of these 7 deadly sins that your swinging friends might not be able to excuse.

      That’s why we put a list of things, to help improve your and everyone’s chance of a good time.

      1. Bad breath

      There is no excuse for bad breath. Oral hygiene is a must because when you start to get close for that first tell-tell kiss and you get that whiff of bad breath, it shuts down all chances of things going any further. Think about it, would you like a trail of reeking smell all over your body? Noooo, right?  Fortunately, this one is very easy to remedy, stick of gum or some mouthwash will do the trick.

      2. Poor hygiene

      No one wants someone who smells hanging around them, let alone trying to roll with them….

      Before the big night have a shower and get some clean clothes on. Meeting a compatible swinger couple is all about grooming and scrubbing up well. If you do not put an effort in to break that first barrier, no way are you going to go any further than that.

      Which are offensive odours that are repellents?

      1. Sweat
      2. Greasy scalp
      3. Stains of sweat
      4. Wet dog

      A shower, some perfume, deodorant can do wonders for your swinger sex life!

      3. Dirty Sheets

       

      So things are going great, you are all jelling well and then you make your way to the bedroom where the real action is going to take place. Dirty sheets are a real deal breaker. So wash your bed sheets, if you are expecting company. Nobody wants to roll around on sheets that have suspicious stains and reek of sweat.

      4. Grooming

      If you are planning to be part of a sexy world of swingers, it is important you do some landscaping. Yes, we mean, the very least trim some away. There are many grooming choices, waxing, trimming, or shaving pick one that suits you.

      5. Lingerie

      When you go to a swinger’s party most times you’ll end up in your underwear at some point in the party. It is then a good idea that you wear clean and sexy under clothes, including men. The right lingerie will tease and arouse the interest of the couple you want to finish the night with. Buy lingerie that compliments you, there is so much out there and at various affordability, it’s no excuse not to own sex lingerie.

      6. Conduct

      There is an acceptable manner in which swingers socialise. Groping, flirting and touching are all acceptable as long as a relationship has been established. All involved have gotten to know each other a bit, spoken and possibly even gone over some basic boundaries.

      However, should a couple say no, respect that and move on.

      7. Attitude

      Assuming that swingers are sexually starved, even depraved, with no standards, is an ignorant thought to entertain.

      Don’t act like the fool who thinks he’s the answer to all the fantasies swinger couples’ entertained that night.

      Let us reiterate; seduction is a complex and delicate beast, you have to look, smell , say and act the right way to appeal to a couple. The irony is that you are the person swingers are looking for, but you just need to know how to navigate your way through the walk of seduction.

      8. Habits that are deal breakers

      SO if you are a single guy or the male of the couples please avoid these little off-putting habits, that will dispel all thought of any interaction……..

      1. Scratching your balls.


      We get it, they need adjusting from time to time, but there’s a discreet way of doing things. If you blatantly stick your hand in your pants and dig around for too long, it might come across as though you have an itchy STD and/or no manners, and consequently will make the lady of the couple clench her legs together and not want to be anywhere near you.

       2. Or scratching your butt…

      By now, everybody in the room be thinking “which hole did they pull this charmer from?” This is  probably even worse than scratching your balls.

      If you have an itch that absolutely must be scratched, take care of business in the bathroom. No woman wants to see the man she’s about to have sex with stick his hand in his ass crack like a savage.

      3. to really put the nail in the coffin; —- finish it with smelling your fingers.

      You seriously didn’t…. Just go home.

       4. picking your nose

      We’re talking about a good exploration with no cares who is watching, and then eating it.  Yeah, gross, this can’t be unseen!

      We get it noses need to be cleaned or breathing gets harder and nobody wants to spot boogers up your nostrils. Take it somewhere else, go to the bathroom and do some deep cleaning but not in public.

       

      These seem like a no brainier but sometimes going over them and reading them might help put things in perspective. Treat your swinging like you are going to an interview, or going on your first date when you will try to be your best, this should be exercised into your swinging outings.

      Now that you know, seduction is an art that takes conscious effort, understand it and master it and you will never miss out on fun.

      gifs images: Giphy

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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #6969

      Outdoor sex & Dogging – Keeping It Interesting

      How do you keep sex interesting? We all have been there, where sex becomes an obligation, a chore and not fun or spontaneous. Over-used missionary, obligatory birthday blow-jobs, positions that add nothing to your pleasure, delayed orgasms, and the list goes on.

      Why should couples endure bad sex. They really don’t have to. A bit of creativity and a sense of adventure will transform your routine, stale sex lives into earthquaking sex.

      Be as bold or as cautious on your sexual script as you like, but do not just endure repetitive and stale sex.

      Share your fantasies, fetishes and kinks, admit it –  we all have at least one, and what’s more these are what make sex wonderfully varied and diverting.

      Don’t be afraid to share your fantasies with your partner, you need to share them in order to explore your sexuality. Do not make the mistake of expecting your partner to read your mind, or be too forward and pull out a drawer full of implements out of nowhere and send them into stupor.

      Take your time and slow it down. Start with asking them if they have any fantasies, kinks or fetishes they like to try out. Then share your interests and gauge your partner’s interest. Accordingly, introduce new things slowly and build it up through time.

      Sex is like a pizza, the best pizza is the one that has the right toppings for you. Most times, you’ll have the same toppings in your pizza but from time to time you like something different. Sex is pretty much the same. Strike that balance between vanilla and kinky sex and your sex life will never be dull.

      Try out outdoor sex, even if it is outside in your backyard, or go dogging by just sitting in the car and watching other couples going for it.

      We all have to start somewhere. Make your fantasies, kinks and fetishes part of your sex life as much as you want them to be.

      Some of us are fierce and jump right into it and some of us are more cautious and take the baby-step approach. At the end it’s all the same because both have abandoned the stale and cobwebbed sex. Any change to the routine is going to feel like a HUGE thrill and will bring novelty and intense orgasms.

      Dogging is a popular sex-act that is incognito and thrilling, combines sex with a stranger with public sex. Although, it sounds like a huge leap in your sexual routine, it’s actually one that is the easiest and hence it’s popularity among many couples. Dogging allows you to experiment with some of your voyeuristic/threesome/public sex and exhibitionism while remaining incognito. Read our post on tips on dogging.

      Want to introduce other kinks/fetishes into your sex life like,bondage,pegging, feet, being electrocuted, wearing a rubber horse mask, watersports, orgasm denial or whatever you have been wishing to try out? Do not be afraid to say them out aloud, for all you know your partner has secretly fantasised about them too, and if not you are going to broaden their horizon.

      Sharing your ‘secret’ fantasies, fetishes, kinks are going to send your senses on overload. It will magnify and open a new whole world of pleasure and enhance your intimacy.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #6896

      The simplest way to explain something is to do it in reference to something that is very familiar to someone else.

      Men and women have struggle through the ages to make each other understand what is the best way to approach a woman. Many failed and gave up, leaving us to live in a world where men and women collided until now.

      As a woman how many times do you get catcalled and walk off in  dismay thinking to yourself – “Really?”

      There are better ways to get a woman’s attention and make her feel good about it too.

      Are you still confused how to approach women?

      Watch this little skit below by Fusion it hits the nail in the head.

      photo credit: Fusion


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #6690

      Sexual Liberation Is No Walk In The Park

      Sex, a pleasure we all seek but an act that still leaves us confused and it’s not as straight forward as we’d like it to be.

      We believe that we have reached the age of sexual freedom. We pride ourselves on living in a sexually liberated age. In fact, we haven’t yet, not until we do away with this unbudging fact; we still remain greatly conflicted, ashamed and embarrassed about sex and simply stuck to archaic notions of sex and the sexes. Sex,  and love still to this day, seem to live in unparalleled worlds.

      At present we are still bound by a lot of cultural/ social and religious beliefs that undermine our sexual liberation. We still have not evolved past such black and white thinking.

      Presently, we still cling on to the Madonna-whore split; its very presence is a symptom of sexual slavery not liberation.

      A vast majority of man still maintain that they would not be interested in a relationship with a woman who ‘gave it up on the first night’. A modern woman might be sexually liberated, however, how can she truly be if this idea is still pervasive among men?

      Men need to evolve away from these narrow views and women need the courage to fight this constricting view of their sexuality. A woman can be sexual and also desire a meaningful relationship. She might be a sex-obsessed vixen, but also a hopeless romantic.

      Like a man, a woman can have a career, desire romance, be nurturing, be kinky, sleep with anyone right away and still be the kind of woman you want to settle with.

      Gentlemen you can have a woman, who can be both a Madonna on the streets and a Whore in the sheets – stop labelling a woman who lets her desires lead her to a one night stand.

      Women shouldn’t have to reel in their sexuality, and neither should you want it as it only leads to dishonesty and lies. Why do we have to live in a world of double standards? Where men are defined as stallions and women as whores if they follow their sexual impulses. Do you really want to share a life with a woman who never allows herself to truly and honestly express her sexuality? Worse yet, become sexually repressed and unhappy?

      Anyone, whether you are a man or a woman, should be judged by more than their sexuality. Humans are multidimensional creatures, social, spiritual, intellectual and yes sexual beings. To judge anyone based on only one facet of themselves is to say the least, unfair and unrealistic.

      These archaic perceptions will inevitably lead to relationships that are dishonest from the onset. Since women feel they have to comply to be accepted and enter a meaningful relationship. To free yourself from these, as many open relationship couples experience, is to come to know your partner whole and true, it’s to not hold back.

      Wouldn’t be nice to be with someone who you can talk about and share your deepest desires and fantasies without fearing being judged,or causing panic and fear? True happiness is attained when we feel we can be whom we really are.

      Drop these archaic preconceptions and see things as they truly are and only then can we claim that we have reached sexual liberation.

      This video by The School of Life has an interesting approach to what sexual liberation real is.

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddKwb3Wzz0w[/embed]


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #6496

      The Fascinatingly Strange History Of The Vibrator!

      We live in a society where there is a plethora of sex toys and vibrators available for purchase, but it was not always like that. Back in the late 19th century, however, women didn’t have this luxury.

      Let’s take a look at the fascinatingly strange history of the vibrator.

      How did the extraordinary vibrator come to being? Reality is funnier than fiction, at least in this case!

      The simple truth is that doctors, in the Victorian era, were sick and tired of having to manually give women orgasms to relieve ‘female hysteria’.

      A strange time indeed, a time when female orgasms and sexuality were greatly misunderstood. The orgasm that was produced as a result of the ‘manual message’ was not perceived as orgasms. The prevailing view then was that only normal sexual intercourse with a man could lead to satisfaction. Ladies were enjoying the therapy, we can safely assume.

      Let’s continue with why doctors were then performing manual pelvic massage to relieve ‘female hysteria’.

      Victorian-era women who were diagnosed with ‘hysteria’, which was often nothing than what we now know as PMS, fatigue or even mild case of anxiety, would have to see a doctor who would relieve the hysteria, by performing a manual ‘pelvic massage’, which resulted in an orgasm.

      Yes, the power of the orgasm, it can cure so many things and land you in the land of bliss.

      What probably started as the best idea ever, quickly become every doctors’ nightmare. It was very time-consuming task, with doctors of the era claiming it was incredibly difficult to learn and would take up to an hour manually.

      Doctors all over were suffering from sore arms and in no time one doctor in the US in 1869, invented a steam-powered vibrator dubbed ‘Manipulator’. It turned out to be a monstrous contraption as big as a table; which wasn’t easy to use or mobile.

      Manipulator

      Then along came Dr. Joseph Mortimer Granville who invented the first vibrator at around 1880. One, which was portable and most important, would have women reach orgasms in five or ten minutes. The only downside to Dr. Granville’s invention was the battery, the size of a suitcase, which weighed a bit over 18 Kg alone.

      The historical fiction film Hysteria features a reworked history of the vibrator focusing on Dr. Granville’s invention.

      Granville's Electric Vibrator

      Vibrators became a staple appliance in the common household and curiously advertised on mainstream magazines disguised as devices for massage. Got to love this fact!

      However, things changed around 1920s when the porn films started featuring them and other sex toys, which meant this ‘massagers’ lost their guise and became socially unacceptable.

      The vibrator re-emerged into mainstream public culture during the sexual revolution of the 1960s and has ever since remained. The most popular electric vibrator was called ‘The Magic Wand’.

      The history of vibrators is interesting as it denotes both the birth of one of the best things in women’s self-pleasuring but also the long history in the control of female sexuality.

      What started as a medical device, widely controlled by man, did evolve to become female’s first steps to sexual freedom and exploration.

      Today more and more women are becoming part of the production and running of sex toys. Whom better than women to design a vibrator suited for their needs and pleasure.

      RMIT university lecturer, Judith Glover, runs the first university course on sex-toys, teaching Melbourne students to apply industrial design principles to intimate appliances. The porn industry still controls the majority of sex-toys market but their products are not exactly the best or safest in the market.

      The Future Sex design studio is the brainchild of Dr Glover and student, Victoria Cullen. Where they are creating designs for sex toys that address a range of sexual functions.

      How women feel about their sexual functioning is fundamental to their sense of happiness and their health. This can also be said of men of course, but historically women have been more controlled by a patriarch society that misunderstood and tried to regulate female sexuality.

      Main feature image credit: Industrial Luv Products Inc.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #4660

      The Best Nude Beaches In The World

       

       

      From France’s ‘Naked City’ Cap d’Agde to Massarandupió Beach in Brazil, nothing stays under wraps at these gorgeous nude beaches with gorgeous, sexy people in their full glory. Are you  a swinger who is currently in the wrong side of the earth’s hemisphere? Where it’s winter and your balls are freezing off along with your dropping libido? Time to think of traveling to a warmer side of the world where you can get naked in these numerous nudist beaches. If you want to go full naturist, we’ve hunted down the best places to bare your birthday suit.Just make sure you have enough sunscreen! Here are the most sizzling seaside spots around the globe to soak up the sun, au naturel.

      Cap d’Agde, France

      Cap d’Agde

      Skinny-dipping or an afternoon on a topless beach is what you usually encounter in almost every other nudist beach in the world. In Cap D’Adge however, you find a fully functional naked city. Shop, dine and sight see in your birthday suit, as nature intended you to. Keep our grooming in check; minimalism is definitely important on the pubic-hair front with its largely naked citizenry. Nothing on this scale exists anywhere else in the world.

      Samurai Beach, Australia

      Samurai Beach

      Wikimedia Commons

      Samurai beach in Port Stephens Australia, is located next to Tomaree National Park and is well-maintained year round. Unlike the family-friendly nearby One Mile Beach, however, Samurai is entirely clothing-optional.

      Spiaggia di Guvano, Italy

      Spiaggia di Guvano

      Simon

      This small shoreline in Corniglia Italy, is well worth the short trek through a pitch-black tunnel in the mountainous Cinque Terre region. Once you get there you’ll be happy to find a beach populated by naked Italians.

      Wreck beach, Vancouver, Canada

      Wreck beach

      Accessible only by foot, this remote beach is the oldest and largest clothing-optional beach in the country — it was even nominated to be one of the “Seven Wonders of Canada“. It doesn’t get too packed thanks to the no road access, but despite it, vendors  wonder in selling everything from food, booze to tie-dye T-shirts. The beach is just 15 minutes from downtown Vancouver, but the steep cliff and 500-stair descent keeps those in their birthday suits safe from peeping toms.

      Meco Beach, Portugal

      Eco beach

      The Meco Beach ‘mecca’ is well known in the nudist and surfer community as a natural spa. It’s hedonistic history dates back to the ’70s, 40 km south of Lisbon, located in the middle of a natural park called “Serra Da Arrabiada” it’s a real ‘mecca’ for nudists & surfers . Tourists flock to roll themselves in the green mud that lies across the beach, exfoliating and moisturizing their skin as they go. This beach is divided into two different sections: liberal-minded tourists looking for an afternoon of bare-all bathing can head towards the right and surfers and families have the left side of the beach reserved for some toned-down fun. Perfect for beginners who want to begin topless and later with full frontal.

      Montalivet Beach, France

      Montalivet Beach

      If you’ve ever wondered how the nudist movement really got started, Montalivet Beach is the place to head. It was here where things really kicked off back in the 50s and it’s ever since seen as the birthplace of nudism. Montalievt is not only the oldest but also one of the most popular topless beaches in France mainly because of its easy access to the many luxury resorts in town. The beach even allows you to get a full body tan  in their “family friendly” section.

      Paradise Beach — Mykonos, Greece

      Paradise Beach -- Mykonos, Greece

      Flickr user Pandemia

      This is probably one of the most mashed up nudist beaches where there’s something for everyone here.  Depending on when/where you go, the bodies on this stretch of beach can either be fully clothed, topless, or completely bare, and the crowd run the gamut from college coeds to septuagenarians, all looking to have a good time.

      Valalta, Rovinj, Croatia

      Valalta

      Valalta

      Valalta is technically part of an award-winning naturist campsite, this two-mile rocky nude beach in Croatia, has something most others lack –  shade to shelter from the sun and avoid sunburn. This Campsite in Rovinj, Croatia is rated among the best in the world, with bungalows for rent, there’s also a pool with an aqua-bar, a water slide and a completely nude marina — where you can legally enjoy a naked frolic in the sand.

      Bellevue Beach, Denmark

      Bellevue Beach

      During the summer months, Denmark’s Bellevue beach is where the naked, young, sexy locals Danish people hangout  looking to party. One half’s strictly topless-optional, while the other welcomes fully nude revelers.

      Massarandupió Beach, Bahia, Brazil

      Massarandupió Beach

      Compared to more accessible nudist destinations like Praia do Pinho, Massarandupió is practically off the grid, as only a single access road plus a 1.5-kilometer walk leads to the 12-kilometer-long beach. Brazil, is the land of the string bikini has many accessible nudist destinations but insiders and people in the know head to this aesthetic perfection. It’s isolated so privacy is guaranteed — a top spot for first-timers. Just make sure you’re beach ready.

      Club Orient, St Martin, Caribbean Islands

      Club Orient, St Martin

      Orient Beach is the grande dame of nude beaches in the Caribbean. The most famous nude headquarters in the Caribbean after Hedonism, Club Orient is a favourite of naturists. While Hedonism in Negril is known for its wild and explicit adult parties, this St. Martin beach is for the entire family to vacation in the buff, which includes a clothing-optional day-cruise.

      Hidden Beach Resort, Mexico

      Hidden Beach Resort

      At Mexico’s Hidden beach, nothing stays hidden. Clothing is not optional here, you must drop everything. Skinny dip at the fully nude pools, or go au-naturel at the beach. A nudist can literally spend a week at this property without having to put on a single piece of clothing once. That’s because it is totally secluded and private, prohibiting entrance and views to anyone but the resort guests and staff. The resort offers nude dining at the all-inclusive restaurant, nude bars as well as a nude disco.

      Hedonism, Jamaica

      Hedonism, Jamaica

      Not your average nude beach, this resort is an anything-goes environment. Accommodating both the nude and the prude, scantily-clad entertainment and activities are offered to all. Theme nights include the amusingly titled Sexy Pirates and Booty, Mask-parade and Naughty School Reunion. GREAT ONE FOR MOST SWINGERS.

       


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #4625

      Why Open Relationships Are On The Rise

      In recent years, there has been a rise in ‘open relationships.’ Open relationships have been growing more popular and getting a lot of mainstream media attention. Modern mainstream couples are examining and re-writing the rules about relationships.

      Three – is no longer a crowd. It’s an ideal to a lot of couples that see themselves happier living in relationships that fall away from the traditional configuration of two or monogamy.

      Whether this is as a direct result of the constant exposure to literature, TV-pop culture, movies, and websites that expose people to differing alternative lifestyles: swingers,Polyamory, kinksters and BDSM or the corrective curve of a new learned acceptance towards the point of view of couples who find themselves happier in open relationships. One thing is for certain relationship stereotypes are being challenged. The younger generation is starting to open their eyes the notion of an open relationship as the way to go.

      This redefinition of what relationships are could very well be the solution to a lot of unhappiness, dissatisfaction and source of divorce. In a society where divorce rates are blasting through the roof, modern and younger couples are looking for better alternatives with possibly more successful outcomes.

      Some couples feel that in a monogamous relationship it is hard to meet all the needs of the other partner – emotional, physical, spiritual, financial, however, in an open relationship more of these needs can be met.

      It seems that open relationships is the thing now. Judging by celebrity couples it seems that way. Here are a few who have been rumored to be in open relationships. Check out the couples that make it work or at least tried to have open relationships: Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith, Mo’Nique and Sidney Hicks, Tilda Swinton and Thicke and Paula Patton. Open realtionships have been gaining prominence with the public.

      Undeniably, the interest and curiosity around open relationships has just skyrocketed especially with the increasing number of adults finding that monogamy doesn’t suit them and it is slowly becoming less of a social requirement.

      Monogamy does suit some people more and if we were looking at the benefits of it you only have to look at the likes of Hugh Hefner who is 90 years old – maybe open relationships may be the secret to living forever.

      To prove that open relationships are embarking comfortably in the mainstream arena here are a list of movies that bluntly explore the theme of open relationships: “ Savages”, “Fling” and “The Freebie”. In the past no serious Film Director would dare depict relationships that were unorthodox.

      For centuries we’ve been told that monogamy is the only acceptable kind of relationship but in the current climate relationships are being deconstructed with the help of the media, some celebrity couples and some movies which are helping change the culture, giving people courage to speak freely about their relationship status and creating acceptance towards open relationships.

      Seemingly, what brought about the rise in popularity of open relationships is a lethal combination of sin, shame, guilt and separation in monogamous relationships. Aspects that are eradicated with open relationships. Couples in open relationships, whether it is occasional or continuous swingers, they talk a lot, they negotiate a lot, they bring their feelings to the table and they also constantly looking at how to meet each other’s needs.

      All been said, a state of fluid and dynamic approach of relating to people is essential when exploring and growing sexually, mentally and spiritually. Remain open to all possibilities and find what makes you happy. To some monogamy is just the thing and to others open relationships are their ‘raison d’être’, the world has opened up to the saying “different strokes for different folks”.

      Realistically, people will phase in and out of non-monogamy at different times in their lives and inevitably some of us will choose to be monogamous and others not. What really is important here regardless of choice is that people find happy, fulfilling relationships that we all yearn for.

      What do you think of open relationships? Are we to assume that we’re moving into an era where a triad is going to become the norm? What are your thoughts on this?


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #7061

      Debunking Swingers & Swinging

      Despite numerous literature available online and a handful of published books about swingers and swinging, there are still some misconceptions and myths that seem to linger on. What is worse is that they are widely believed by those with no understanding of what swinging is all about. Let’s then debunk swingers and swinging.

      Most people have preconceived notions about swingers and swinging, some of it might be true and some completely fictional.

      Let’s then look at the top misconceptions and myths about Swingers and swinging and establish why they are not true.

      1. All swingers are old, fat and ugly

      Swingers are people of all walks of life; they are of many different ethnic and econ-social backgrounds, different age and size. There are the beautiful, the average and the ordinary, exactly what you’d expect to see when you go out on a night out to a pub, nightclub or restaurant. Some people will turn heads because they are gorgeous, others because they are striking, some because they are different and some because you can’t decide and others because simply they are not your type. What is unequivocal is that most swingers are friendly and respectful.

      2. Swingers parties are big orgies

      Orgies are part of the swinger lifestyle and those who enjoy this type of encounters will do anything they can to be part of it, but if this is not your thing you will make other choices.

      To assume that all swingers parties are big orgies is just not true, swingers do not have sex with anyone or everyone. Swingers are selective, they will only engage in play if they share the same likes, are sexually compatible and attractive.

      Most swingers parties are very much like your ordinary nightclub scene, where people chat, dance and have fun. Maybe the only difference would be that women in a swingers party will dress sexy and provocatively, they are not afraid to openly express their sexuality. The reason to be at a swingers party varies in so far as to why couples come to these parties.

      Couples go to swingers parties to meet other attractive, and like minded couples and if they do meet a couple who share the same likes they head to a hotel to have fun together.

      3. Couples become swingers because they are in unhappy relationships

      A swingers lifestyle is no playground for a relationship with problems as it would worsen their problems. Swinging is not the answer to relationship with problems. Couples who survive the lifestyle are usually couples who have secure and strong relationships. To become part of this lifestyle you need to communicate with open honesty. Where you open up to your partner about your fantasies and fetishes and work out what you both are happy to pursue and fulfill in reality

      Swingers use this lifestyle as a means to spice their sex life, to add adventure to otherwise a monotonous marriage after years of ‘couplehood’ and definitely not as a means to mend or fix a broken relationship.

      4. Swingers are more likely to contract an STI

      Swingers are couples who have already invested a lot of time in communicating boundaries, bucket lists and most certainly take in consideration safety. As when you are single and dating you take precaution because after all you would ruin the fun if you do not use protection. Let’s be honest here, whether you are a swinger or a single person having sex with more than one person, you will be exposed to STI’s, being in the lifestyle doesn’t increase the risk. Therefore it’s important to have safe sex at all times.

      5. Swinging is initiated by the male/husband 

      The male in the relationship might drive the idea of swinging or experimentation with group sex. But it’s not exclusively so. It’s expected men to bring the subject of swinging up as women are taught to not pursue sex and their sexuality aggressively as men do.

      However, there are many instances where it is the wife who suggests swinging.

      Swinging has a special attraction for women who want to experiment with their bisexuality or be the centre of attention of two males.

      Swinging might present many challenges to a relationship including possible feelings of jealousy, low self-esteem, and issues with trust. Some couples, however, report that the act of swinging or indulging in group sex does the opposite for them, increasing the women’s confidence and allowing husbands to see their wives in a new light, strengthening their commitment to one another. It all depends on the couple and their reasons for participating.

      Although swinging enhances or improves the sex lives of many couples, it’s not for everybody. If you want to try it but have insecurities or you are not able to communicate well with your partner, swinging can ruin your relationship instead of improving it. Swinging enhances only relationships that are strong and happy.

      Today swinging includes a wide range of couples and singles, looking to fulfill many different types of fantasies. It has changed dramatically since the days of the key parties.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #4613

       Celebrate Me Time

      May is the month of masturbation, a time to celebrate me time. Frankly,we are hoping that you make time for some solo-play every day of the year and prioritise it like going to the gym.

      Masturbation is one of the easiest and sexiest way to please yourself, an on-going journey of learning about your pleasure responses, self-exploration and of expanding your fantasies. In addition, there is mounting evidence that masturbation is good for you health.

      Masturbating means you’re taking the time and energy to get more connected to your body and what makes you feel good. With that said here are a few tips on how you could improve your solo-play, don’t hesitate in sharing with us your best tips.

      1. Set the scene:

      Whether you like to play music,read erotica, sexting, put on a show on webcam if you are daring enough or bring out your favourite porn, do all it takes to get your mind in the right space.

      2. Lube & more lube

      Lube can make your masturbation feel even better. There are so many different varieties of lube out there, some that will create warmth others will create cooling sensation. Lube can add so much fun to your masturbation.

      3. G-spot

      Masturbation is the ideal way to find where your G-spot is. It’ll be fun for solo-play and when you are with your partner guide them to the right direction and your reward will be an intense and amazing orgasm.

      4. Toys

      Sex toys are popular and a favourite in many women’s bedrooms. Sex toys are  great for both solo play and partner play. Often it happens that there is a toy that becomes your favourite as it seems to hit the right spot straight away. Lube up your favourite toy and indulge in some me time.

      Lots of people, both single and committed people are masturbating themselves to happier, healthier lives. Read more on why masturbation is good for you - 4 Reasons Why Masturbation Is The Best.

      Masturbation is a topic clouded with a lot myths, two Canadian scientists have produced a video to dispel the rumors once and for all. Beating the meat and polishing the pearl are both good for you. Listen up to AsapSCIENCE

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GU3JqoUDkjA

      Masturbation is not only for singles, but also for women and men in relationships. When in a relationship, masturbating together doesn’t mean you always have to do it together. Don’t be offended at all if your partner would prefer to do solo from time to time. Masturbation is healthy and fun, but it can be important to also have moments to yourself, and respect that your partner’s appetites for sex may differ from yours.

      Take the time to look after yourself, to learn about yourself, to really explore the amazing sexual human you really are. Our bodies and our minds are capable of so much, and the first step in any self growth and learning is to accept and love yourself for who and what you are.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #4098

      Electric Sex

      Playing with electricity can put a sparkle back in your love life, however safety should always be a priority.

      If you are curious about electric sex you need to learn all about how to play safe. Just like any other scene you  need to know some things before you jump into playing with electricity. Word of advice, research everything you can find about the topic before you indulge. If possible, always try to find a mentor in real-life to walk you through what you want to do as added instruction. Try to find a mentor in your local area or via online video conferencing if you’re out of other options.

      Here are a few pointers you need to consider and ask  yourself  and your partner before you get started.

      1. Do you or your partner have any health issues?

      It could lead to fatality if ignored. Talk about any major surgeries or medical issues that would make them different from the “average” or healthy person. Certain medical issues, such as a pacemaker and some heart condition and any metal plates, will make it unsafe or even fatal to use electric sex play.

      Also another aspect to consider is possible burns that can arise on sensitive skins, as a precaution have a first aid kit readily available at all times regardless. It is highly unlikely that anything will go wrong but it’s wise to be ready for any situation and have burn supplies on-hand. Make sure you’ve read up on the proper treatment of burns as well.  Better safe than sorry. 

      2. Put away smartphones and jewellery .

      Any electric devices can be damaged by electricity. Some jewellery, including piercings are conductors of electricity, always ensure you or your partner are not wearing any jewellery before your electric play. Anything made of iron must be removed before play to be on the safe side

      3. Safe Word

      Always agree on a safe word. You should be able to bring play to a complete stop, whether it’s because what you had in your mind did not play out the same in reality. Or you just feel different about it all today or as the play progressed.

      4. Ensure equipment is positioned safely

      Ensure you are not near water, are properly grounded and you are familiar with your equipment. Also always start in the lowest voltage and build up from there if agreed. Ensuring then that there is no injury and also that you sensitise to the electric current travelling through you.

      5. Start with bigger eletrodes

      If you are just getting started it is best you use the larger electrodes as they will provide a softer sensation. This is because the electricity is spread out through a larger area.

      Once you have completed your research and feel confident in your new learned knowledge. Have considered worst possible scenario and have a safe plan of action to go to. Have the necessary equipment and are familiar with it. You are now ready to start slowly your new adventure and spark up your sex life.

      video credit: RedHotPie.com


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #3933

      Project Consent Delivering The Message to Everyone

      Sex, when between two consenting adults, is positive, healthy and enjoyable.

      In our culture, issues of consent are still misunderstood and that is why talking about it is extremely important.

      Consent has been an issue that even stars have stood up for. One such star is Amber Rose, love her or hate her, there’s no denying Amber Rose is one seriously badass woman.

      In many occasions she has stood up for women sexuality on slut-shaming and in one occasion at least for CONSENT. During an appearance on new OWN talk show, “It’s Not You, It’s Men,” Rose perfectly shut down hosts Tyrese Gibson and Rev. Run for failing to grasp the meaning of the word “consent.” She explains the definition of consent, watch the clip below:

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvdG5OdQ3wU[/embed]

      Other stars joining this important movement are showcased in the video below by It’s on US. Their motto is:  Consent. If you don’t get it, you don’t get it.

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dx54t8h5Q5U[/embed]

      Knowing why consent is important is really worthwhile when starting a sexual relationship. There are verbal and physical cues as well as things you can say if you want things to slow down or stop.

      So the bottom line is to have a conversation and not to pressure someone if they don’t feel ready. The discussion on consent doesn’t have to be a long one. It’s simple: yes or no.

      To help build consent culture, the fine folks at Project Consent have created a few easy-to-follow videos showcasing exactly how consent works. To bring the message home they use adorable boobs and penises to illustrate the point.

      Laughing

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtY7QeI_rCU[/embed]

      Whistling

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NqGqSqNq58[/embed]

      Dancing

      [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHkUczVRHSM&list=PLMGTAwnlBwSaFtTa7pDg0Q29SNte8AaGe&index=3[/embed]

      These cute videos really show how simple consent is. If it’s not yes, it’s no.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #3871

       Sex Trends Predictions For 2016

      Now that we are way into 2016 ,we’ve asked our sex-clairvoyant to dig out their crystal balls and predict what we’ll be doing in and out of the bedroom this year.

      Let’s have a look at some of the top sex trends predictions on the horizon for 2016.

      Butt for everyone

      Anal sex is hardly new, but how straight men feel about it is definitely changing. Allowing your girlfriend access to your No-Go zone will not have any implications on your sexuality. In fact, you might quite enjoy it. It’s an act that it’s not only about the pleasure but it’s also about power role-play change.

      Sex toy manufactures like LELO have seen an increase in the strap-on sales and it’s also interesting to note that two out of three of these anal toys is purchased by women for use with a partner. Pegging is the new found pleasure for the straight guy who knows anal pleasure has nothing to do with his inclination or orientation but all to do with his sexual pleasure.

      Intelligent Sex Toys

      Sex toys have been so far little more than a motor and an on/off switch. That’s been changing over the past few years, but 2016 may be the first year that we really see a lot smart sex toys on the market. This includes Bluetooth-enabled remote control vibrators, smartphone controlled bionic feedback toys that respond based on how they’re touched and even vibrators you can program yourself. And while virtual sex via virtual reality headset may not quite make it into early 2016, that sort of futuristic stuff  isn’t far off either.

      Male Contraception

      Apparently, the condom has been the same since the 1920s. Last year, 2015, was a big year for male contraception, but January 2016, kicked off with yet another idea that got major press. A switch that could be used to turn fertility on and off as needed – a scrotal switch which might be a long shot. But at least it shows that there is a resolution in finding a better solution and 2016 might be the year for it.

      Vagina power

      We are all loving all the new and higher tech innovation in and out of the bedroom. It’s 2016, which means you don’t even have to lift and squeeze on your own. New Elvie is a pebble-shaped trainer for your vagina, which you place in you like a tampon. While you’re squeezing, it will send a message to an Elvie app on your smart phone to let you know how you’re getting on. Nobody wants these muscles to grow weak that can result in back pain, incontinence and perhaps the worst weaker or lack of orgasms. . Ladies you can train your new orgasmic -muscles at your office desk without anyone suspecting it. Keeping hoo-has in tip top shape has become easy and you can avoid all those embarrassing incontinence issues your granny had to deal with.

      Slow sex

      In this media-drenched, multitasking, always-on age, many of us have forgotten how to unplug and immerse ourselves completely in the moment. We have forgotten how to slow down.

      In 2016 will be about conscious sexuality: giving sex a lot more thought, planning it and pulling it off with some finesse. In short, give sex our full attention.

      There is still a time and place for a quickie, but not a quickie all the time.

      Slowing down between the sheets can deepen the emotional, psychological, even spiritual power of sex. It also gives the body – especially the female body – the time it needs to warm up.

      So make the bedroom a no phones, no deadlines zone; just two people in the moment together, going with the flow.

      Slow Sex is catching on especially in 2016.

      What trends do you think are on the horizon for 2016? Let us know in the comments.


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      Jade Fox on · in reply to: Find Out All About ‘Safe Call’ #3817

      Science Says These Superfoods Are Good For Boners

      Good news for your boner, gentlemen!

      Through the ages, humans have been trying to improve their sex drive and performance with the help of food.

      All around the world aphrodisiacs claiming to make you better in bed range from tasty to strange. From classic raw oysters to tiger penis thought to be a libido booster in China. But before you eat something you might regret later, let’s turn you attention to some foods that are more palatable.

      A new study published in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition revealed that simply consuming more flavonoid-rich foods like fruits, vegetables, tea and red wine could seriously decrease your risk of developing erectile dysfunction.

      Flavonoids are a type of phytonutrient that give fruit like grapes and blueberries their rich colour, and have incredible antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties. The flavonoid anthocyanin encourages blood flow, which is what helps with erection, so no wonder is good for your junk.

      The study, led by Aedin Cassidy, professor of nutrition at the University of East Anglia in Norwich, UK, followed 25,096 men over 10 years, and had them fill out food-frequency questionnaires every 4 years to track their dietary patterns. The men also self-rated their erectile function (or dysfunction), and the researchers found that the men who ate more flavonoid-rich foods had lower rates of erectile dysfunction

      Cassidy said in a press release at the University of East Anglia: “ Men who regularly consumed foods high in these flavonoids were 10% less likely to suffer erectile dysfunction. In terms of qualities, we’re talking just a few portions a week”. He also added that having lots of flavonoids in your diet reduces your risk of heart disease, diabetes, and cancer too. Win, win situation – good for your junk and your general health.

      What are the foods with the most erection-friendly flavonoids? Try blueberries, cherries, radishes, celery, citrus fruits, parsley, thyme, hot peppers, tea, and red wine. They’re the secret formula to well working penis. Experts claim that eating a handful of berries three times a week or a few glasses of red wine could be as effective as the famous blue pill.

      Off to the grocery store!

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