4 Bedroom Moves Hotter than Fifty Shades of Grey.
Now that the dust has settled on the popular movie Fifty Shades of Grey, the time might be right time to mention your secret BDSM fantasies to your partner.
Before I continue, if you haven’t watched the movie yet and have always wondered how you’d introduce the subject of BDSM to your partner, let the movie do half the work for you.
GO WATCH IT!
If you are too shy then wait for it to come out and watch it in the private f your home. Let me say this, you’ll be missing out especially if for a while now you have been trying to share your BDSM fantasies with your partner.
For those that have watched Fifty Shades of Grey, ever since you have watched the movie, the excitement and curiosity has gotten the best of you and you want to bring some of that excitement into your bedroom. You are feeling braver to bring the subject up about your interest in BDSM. You have been always curious about kinky rope tying, or want to be blindfolded and you were too scared to bring it up. Maybe you have hinted at the subject before and were turned down and felt a tad embarrassed.
This is the time to ask for what you want. The waters have been warmed up for you with the viewing of Fifty Shade of Grey and your partner has been granted some introspective.
How will your relationship benefit from enjoying your desire for little rope bondage and kinky fun? It will open your confidence and love for your body and deepen your relationship.
Prior to starting you need to discuss your boundaries and respect those boundaries. You might want to draw up a contract as in Fifty Shades of Grey and agree on a safe word for when things get a bit out of hand and you need to put a stop to the play session.
Here are four bedroom moves that are hotter than Fifty Shades of Grey:
- Be Creative.
Use your bed or chair for tying up. No need to go to any extra expenses, especially in the very beginnings. You might at a later stage build yourself your won ‘red room’. Grab a few scarves or your partner’s old tie and restrain your partner’s hands to the bed or a chair. Keep the knots tight enough to restrict movement but easy to break out of it you need to. Now the fun starts; maybe start with a bit of teasing with an ice cube, feather, candle wax (use appropriate wax not the ordinary candle wax lying around the house), or a vibrator.
The person tied up relinquished control, which is a big turn on for some people but pay close attention to your partner’s responses if they need you to stop.
Have with the power dynamic in your relationship. You can choose to be a permanent Sub or Dom or switch. Your play is extensive and bound only by the limits of your imaginations. You can ask the submissive to pleasure you or themselves in front of you. You can delay their pleasure so it builds up to mind blowing orgasms.
Think you might like a bit of spanking? Some people enjoy the light spanking with an open hand and others a little firmer. Use your hand or say a wooden spoon or spatula right out of your kitchen cupboard, or paddle. Some people experience pleasure through a mixture of pain and sexual stimulation at the same time. We all experience sexual pleasure differently; the only thing is to find out how to use it for our maximum pleasure. Other times the mood sets the way we need and want to experience sexual pleasure.
- Stock up on goodies
Stock up on toys. rope, lube, high quality chocolate, blindfolds, handcuffs, and almost anything else you can imagine are on sale at your local Bunnings (chuckle)or sex toy store.
Shopping together can be a great way to continue the intimate inquiry, and heighten the anticipation.
Have fun exploring so many different ways to express and experience your sexuality in a safe and consensual manner.