3 Reasons Why Women Dig Group Sex
To begin with 15% of women fantasise about group sex and it’s not really surprising they do. If you think that your partner doesn’t sit around fantasising about very naughty things, think again. There are 3 good reasons why women fantasise about group sex and in the right circumstance they might want to try it out.
1. It’s more exciting
In 2013, Emily Dubberley, an author and journalist specialising in sexual relationships, suggests that group sex is naturally appealing because it is highly stimulating. Orgies, group sex, swinging parties, threesomes, or gangbangs offer multiple hands, tools and tongues touching you all over from strangers who you don’t know. One person could be kissing you while another person is licking you down there or others could be teaming you. Whew, is it hot in here, or is it just me? The possibilities are endless.
2. Free and liberating experience
Sex can be just sex, without any emotional attachment. You’re not going to fall in love with everyone at the orgy. The idea of no-strings attached sex can be very exciting and liberating. Your focus is on your own sexual pleasure.
The idea of being ‘very stimulated’ – more things going on simultaneously than normally happens during sex – is part of the allure. For others it’s the possibility of having sex with both a man and a woman at the same time, or the totally anonymous nature of some group sex acts. Doesn’t this sound good?
3. The survival of our species demands it
Well sort of –In the famous words of Dr. Milton Diamond “ Nature loves diversity and society abhors it”. Society loves to restrict, to monitor and people to adhere as it creates this sense of balance and control. Nature is far stronger and will manifest itself in our sexual behaviour, which is diverse in itself.
There are many, many ways that people are wired for pleasure. Adding to this, not all women are excited by group sex fantasies. We all have unique erotic fingerprints.
Anything new or unpredictable fires up our dopamine receptors to give us sexual pleasure. Therefore it’s natural for humans to desire new and different sexual stimulations or scenarios.
Whatever fantasy is ruling your senses at the time go with it and fear not, it’s all helping you and your partner experience higher pleasure. Whether you and your partner want to take your fantasy to the next level it’s entirely up to you. If you want it and you happen to have the right scenario why not be wild and live wild.
Now don’t mistakenly assume that all women want to engage in-group intercourse, and gather up all your buddies for your next fun- date, unless, of course, she asks you to.