5 Benefits Of Being A Swinger

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5 Benefits Of Being A Swinger

While swinging might not be for everyone, for those that it is, there are a lot of benefits a relationship can reap from being swingers. Contrary to common belief swinger couples seem to enjoy stronger and  healthier relationships than their vanilla counterparts, especially if they are in a well established and secure relationship. Besides having lots of sexual adventures with different couples, there are also other benefits. Following are 5 benefits that swinger couples enjoy:

1. Open communication

To successfully exist and enjoy the lifestyle, swinger couple learn that they need to have open and honest communication with each other. When you first start in the swingers lifestyle there are many challenges that will test your relationship and you can only overcome those challenges when you communicate openly and honestly with each other. When you learn to communicate properly with your partner you will navigate any challenge whether it’s a issue relating to swinging or not. Strong, healthy relationships, swingers or not, have the ability to communicate effectively.

2. High Intimacy

Sex is at the center of any swingers couple and therefore their levels of intimacy unlike their vanilla counterparts never dwindles. Swingers share their fantasies and live some of them out together. They have adventures and experiment together which will increase their intimacy. They are the type of couples that will have something on every weekend and where monotony never sets in. They are very focused in investing time on their relationship, sometimes their adventure is not so much a sexual one but a sexy one, which is more than enough to keep things varied and exciting.

3. Interesting social life

They continue to socialise with other people. Every weekend they can if they wish go out together and encounter a new adventure. Swingers don’t suffer from a dull social life. Swingers soon discover that they start forming great friendships within the swingers couples, to the extend where they lose touch with their ‘vanilla’ friends as they find them slightly uninteresting. Swingers share the same sense of adventure and are willing to keep the excitement in both their sex lives and their social lives alive. Contrary to the general view, swingers do not always indulge in sex, they also enjoy open social interaction where there is no judgement.

4. Great Confidence

This confidence comes from the constant reassurance that you are still attractive and sexy to other people other than your partner. Everyone likes to feel desired and to be told you still got it is a huge confidence boost. One of the most common passion killer is the belief that you are not attractive anymore and that your partner deep down is not turned on by you. Your partner’s desire and lust for you is reignited in response to other people desiring you.

5. Young at heart

When you don’t stop having fun, you feel revived and young. Having fun and lots of sex keeps you youthful. What is best as a swinger couple you have fun together and this keeps you feeling and looking younger together.

 

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Tom Elllis

Tom has just started to listen to his call for writing and he’s very enthusiastic about sharing his views on sexuality, life, alternative expression and humour.