13 Rules To Survive Your First Adult Sex Parties
Is going to an adult sex party in your bucket-list, but wish you could know a little bit more about what to expect and what goes on before you take the plunge? You are not alone, what follows is a few pointers that will help you be better prepared for the big event. I’m going to talk about adult sex parties and how to survive them.
So often we try to play it down, but it is a big deal taking this step into an open relationship and go to an adult party, walking away from the fear and guilt that society instills in us.
To dispel any fears, delusions or even panic or paralysis (chuckle), I thought it might be an idea to write some tips and rules you absolutely need in order to survive an adult party and you can thank me later.
Rule#1 Look the best you can (hot)
Party goers don’t have to be Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie (we wouldn’t complain if they were) but they must show that they look after themselves, good physic, good hygiene; the short of that, scrub up well. Goers generally are couples, singles ladies and a few selected single men who are presentable and have great people skills. Wear an outfit or anything that will compliment you and makes you feel sexy. For example, a hot black, sexy dress that shows off your body. Or anything that you feel brings your inner sexy. Guests are willing participants who enjoy sex and aren’t afraid to explore their sexuality.
Rule #2 Socialise First
Some people may be wham bam and if that is your style dive right in and have fun. The majority of people want to get to know you first. After all a woman’s mind is her most powerful sex organ.
Rule#3 Expect things will get steamy
When you first step into the party venue it’ll feel like any other swanky cocktail party. Pretty, sexy women and suave men sipping champagne, vodka or whiskey on the rocks, chatting away in groups, while a reel of porn plays on the flat screen TV on the back wall. That’s when you start to feel the underlining intent.
Rule#4 Let your inhibitions go, because people are about to get down and dirty
Some parties are themed but at the bare minimum sexy or very sexy is the general requirement. If you are a first timer you might quiver in fear and in excitement and if you have been there often you’re excitement heightens as signs of opening of the naughty games start to unveil. There are some ‘playrooms’ for those who got winded up early and sex begins. Let go, don’t think about it, and enjoy the party for what it is: a gathering of like-minded people who share the same interests.
Rule#5 You have to be naked in the playroom
Whist the rule is naked if in the playroom, you’ll find that not everybody’s ‘pleasure’ revolves around being in the playroom. There are diverse sexual fantasies at play in these parties. Standing, peeking in are the obvious voyeurs who wait all week for this type of opportunity to get their juices going.
As a warm up when all parties are happy, women playfully kiss each other and the men get warmed up with the show right in front of their eyes. Others have an appetite for the single men – the more the better. Some women enjoy a lot of attention and what better than adult parties where you can hand pick them.
Whether it’s your first time or your one-hundredth time, it’s important to stay grounded and in touch with yourself as thing happen at the parties, and trust your instincts.
When you nude up have a wash especially in the summer months or anytime as a matter of fact. You will feel fresh and more desirable. There is no bigger turn off than bad body smells due to lack of hygiene.
Rule#7 Know your boundaries
Keep in mind that your boundaries are important and if you are not ready to try something new just say no this time or until the time you are ready. It’s also worth remembering that boundaries change and it is ok to re-evaluate them from time to time.
Boundaries should be discussed among couples but you’ll quickly learn that people feel excited and more alive when they stretch their boundaries and grow from the experience. It doesn’t have to be a big leap even small ones can create these feelings. This is the fundamental of these parties, an opportunity to grow sexually alone or with a partner. Parties are a chance for self-exploration
Rule#8Women run the show
Every night is ladies nights, sorry guys. Women call all the shots. Participants can have sex with their partners, swap, or hunker down a bag of popcorn and enjoy the show. Anything goes, as long as everybody involved is in agreement.
Rule#9 It’s Hot!!
It’s definitely hot. Just let go and don’t think about it, enjoy the party for what it is –SEX PARTY – a gathering of like-minded people who share the same interests – sex, lots of sex and variety sex.
Rule#10 Get Involved
While you could choose to just watch, it’s way more fun when you get involved.
Rule #11 Don’t Hesitate
There is so much fun to be had. Even if you decide to stick to one-on-one encounter once you turn around you’ll have an amazing show of naked bodies busy with all kinds of position and sex – who needs porn!!
Rule# 12 Move on & out
Once you get that point where you’ve seen all the sex you can see for one night. The magic of the evening is starting to wear off then is time to take a break, have a drink or just pack up and leave.
Overall parties are and should be a sex-positive place where like-minded people explore together and where there is someone out there to suit your particular needs and tastes to your sexual discovery. These parties provide the platform for people to try things, to intentionally test and bend their personal boundaries, slowly or not, as long as no one is getting hurt and everyone is taking the relevant precautions. Then we’ll just let everyone get on with getting it on.
Rule# 13 Clean up
Clean up after yourself. It shows your appreciation for the hosts of the party. We all appreciate walking into a tidy and clean premises that immediately fosters an environment desirable to play in.
Overall parties are and should be a sex-positive place where like-minded people explore together. Where get to meet face to face someone who suits your particular needs and tastes and get the chance to enjoy your shared interests right there. These parties provide the platform for people to try things, to intentionally test and bend their personal boundaries, slowly or not, as long as no one is getting hurt and everyone is taking the relevant precautions. Then we’ll just let everyone get on with getting it on.
If there are any other valuable rules or tips on how to survive your first adult party, please share with us.