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  Maya Fuller on June 29, 2015 at 5:05 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #3079
  
  Porn sex versus real sex
  
  Sex makes for a great subject of conversation, whether you know a lot about it or not. People are always ready to listen or share their knowledge about sex, it doesn’t matter which side you’re in, the listener or the speaker, regardless you stand to learn more about this infinite interesting subject. Sadly, sometimes we get our facts wrong only because we let ourselves believe what we see in porn is true and representative of real life.
  
  Porn is fun to watch and is there to entertain but is no means to draw your facts from about sex . Sex in real life and in porn is dramatically different. To help out youtube Turn On Love Drink has compiled a few facts in the video entitled Porn sex versus real sex. Watch below and set your record straight:
  
  Want to learn more about the real truth about sex read; 7 common sex myths debunked.
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  Maya Fuller on June 25, 2015 at 4:19 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #3067
  
  Finally A Fun New Word For Female Masturbation
  
  The Swedish Association for Sexuality Education (RFSU) last year decided to find a word for female masturbation since there wasn’t one in Swedish language. Round of applause to the Swedish minds hard at work to put female masturbation in the conversation!
  
  Finally a fun new word for female masturbation, in Swedish, at least.
  
  As RFSU spokeswoman Kristina Ljungros said “When it comes to masturbation, people mostly think about just men doing it and we don’t think of it as common for women. If we don’t have a word in the language, how can we even talk about it?” If there isn’t a word to describe female masturbation how is it possible to talk about it?
  
  Men have a series of colourful words that describe male masturbation. One of which is the word ‘jack off’, it actually is a pretty awesome descriptive word for male masturbation – just the right amount of edgy boldness and not too dirty. Of course, it’s also very male. It’s totally a guy’s phrase.
  
  So yes, for a long while there has been a need for a similar word for female masturbation and the Swedish have taken it on to come up with one.
  
  The RFSU welcomed the nation’s women to submit their own suggestions, and from a shortlist of forty words “klittra” won by a landslide, besting other favorites like “runka” and “pulla.”
  
  Maybe “Klittra” is not the ideal word but it sure got people talking about it, and hopefully in the very near future there will be a better more encompassing word for female masturbation that does pack a punch like ‘jerking off’ does for men.
  
  Now RFSU is hard at work to include this new word in the next publication of their dictionary to officially make it a word.
  
  Could ‘Kilttra’ catch on all around the world?
  
  Can you think of a better word that describes female masturbation?
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  Maya Fuller on June 18, 2015 at 6:13 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #3060
  
  Want To Try Sex On A Plane – This Might Work
  
  Admit it, we have all been tempted or at least thought about it. Who doesn’t want to join the mile high club?
  
  There are many, many more comfortable places to have sex, you right! But joining the ‘mile high club’ is about risk and novelty, not comfort or convenience. Plus it’s a pretty fun way to pass the time on a long flight, just make sure you don’t get caught. How do you get away without being caught then? Like all great life challenges, one must boldly overcome fear, systematically calculate risk and hope for a little luck.
  
  If you are brave enough to slip into the toilet for a sneaky frolic this is how you should do it. Watch this couple in the video below formulate the perfect plan to achieve that goal. As they get hard at work, they get what they want, and the outcome is hilarious.
  
  It’s actually not a bad plan as they get the whole plane to sympathise and they get their little romp at the expense of others gullibility. This coupe will no doubt leave you with a new appreciation for airline travel.
  
  This great sketch is from YouTube celebrity Jimmy Tatro. This might just work…
  
  Obviously sex in a plane is (technically) illegal, so we advice you take great precaution and don’t be caught. Maybe also have a great story to explain why you both went in the bathroom together case they ask.
  
  If you really have a burning desire to have sex on a plane, don’t want to stress about being caught, maybe consider joining the mile high club.
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  Maya Fuller on June 13, 2015 at 11:07 pm · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2985
  
  10 Weirdest Sexual Fetishes
  
  The title says it all – 10 weirdest sexual fetishes. Alltime10s compiled this list of the top ten weirdest fetishes with the intent not to mock, but to simply inform. This video contains some of the most shocking and strange fetishes in the world. From amputee lovers, life-size teddy bears, cake-sitters to tentacle fetishes.
  
  Some of these fetishes are outright shocking and dangerous, and we’re hoping these remain in the realm of fantasy. For instance, did you know that some people get turned on by the idea of losing limbs?
  
  Words such a; strange, weird, absurd and borderline psychiatric material might come to mind. However, the world of sex and sexuality is strangely different and unique. Each and every individual has different response to sensations therefore making sexuality a very difficult subject to understand at times. We’re hoping that certain sexual fetishes remain only in the realm of fantasy and never become a reality.
  
  To some people these sexual fetishes are a real turn-on. If it makes them happy and it’s not hurting anyone or themselves, then by all means, indulge. There are many more sexual fetishes that are strange to some and a complete turn-on for others. Want to learn more on fetishes such as sneezing fetishism? Or read about Sex is fun and sometimes a little strange.
  
  Watch as Alltime10s counts down strange turn-ons and titillations in the world’s weirdest sexual fetishes.
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  Maya Fuller on May 29, 2015 at 1:33 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #3012
  
  How swinging can affect your relationship
  
  Swinging can potentially be a positive and fantastic addition to an already great relationship/marriage. A great relationship is one that has no trust issues, enjoys an honest and open communication and is very secure.
  
  Swinging is a platform to heighten couples sexual play and not one in which couples find solutions to their relationship problems. An already fragile relationship will be rocked to the depths of its friability and more likely to fail in a swinging atmosphere. Mostly it will not enjoy swinging for what it is meant to be – a platform to enhance couple’s sexual play – to enrich couples lives with fun, adventure and sexual exploration.
  
  What can you expect to experience from swinging if your relationship is on the right track?
  
  The Good
  
  Swinging supercharges your sex life, there will more talk about what you want to do and talk about what you have done and how you’d like to do it differently.
  
  You will be changing a few things in your bedroom, trying new positions, new sex toys, and new sexual acts. Expect then more sex in your lives.
  
  The Not So Good
  
  If there are any small issues in your relationship they will be magnified. Issues of insecurity, jealousy or any other areas of weakness will become a challenge. It’s then important to talk things over. Take a break, go work on your relationship and then come back and enjoy yourselves issues free, it’ll be more fun than your first attempt.
  
  The Awesome
  
  Having new like minded-friends who you can talk to, flirt with free judgement is absolutely awesome. What is remarkable about the journey together in swinging is that while you experience extra sex and desire, you are bought together closer than before and your bond becomes stronger than you possibly it could.
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  Maya Fuller on May 15, 2015 at 5:21 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2942
  
  Does Size Matter?
  
  Women answer the question – Does size matter? Yes, we’re talking about the size of the penis!
  
  Cut Video invited women from all ages to respond to “Does size matter?” They interviewed many different women in hope to get a better understanding of the infamous question.
  
  Watch their responses in the video below. There are many variety answers, with giggles, and hesitations. Overall, it’s interesting to note that women find this question hard to answer.
  
  Women offer their answer and they seem to be just as confused in the matter as men. These women soon realise that there is no one answer, no perfect or universal answer.
  
  There are many variables to consider. The type of encounter, the type of woman, the type of lover and if you are in a loving relationship. Some men can be less endowed but they are devoted and considered lovers and size becomes less of an issue. Other times, women tunnel in the fantasy of ‘Big penis’ and then size matters.
  
  Watch the video below and leave us your own answer:
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  Maya Fuller on May 12, 2015 at 3:42 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2914
  15 Signs You Might Be A Swinger
  
  We all like to think we exercise maximum discretion as swingers, and we do. What is utterly hilarious is that swingers can spot another swinger without even meeting or saying ‘hello’. There are certain things we all do that only people in the lifestyle would recognise as telltale signs you are a swinger. These could be certain behaviours, habits or patterns that all swingers use and share but only swingers can recognise and unveil you.
  
  The list below is sure to put a smile in your face as you will recognise some as your own.
  
  Here are some hilarious telltale signs that you might be a swinger:
  
  You can’t remember the last time you had pubic hair
  
  You worry about explaining to the neighbors why 10 couples show up on a Saturday night carrying over night bags and don’t leave until Sunday afternoon…
  
  Your sex toy collection costs more than your china set.
  
  Your wife has a shirt that says: “I Like Girls Too.”
  
  You have a strippers pole in the middle of your den.
  
  The last thing you typically do at a party is search for your wife’s thong.
  
  The word “slut” has become a term of endearment.
  
  A hot tub is considered a necessity not a luxury.
  
  You frequently use the term “Friends of friends” when explaining how you know certain people.
  
  You have an entire closet devoted just to themed outfits.
  
  You come back from vacation and you have a tan, but no tan lines.
  
  Your husband has lipstick on his collar and he smells like another woman’s perfume and it brings a smile to your face.
  
  The only time you go out with your vanilla friends is when you’re on your period.
  
  Your husband has lipstick on his collar and he smells like another woman’s perfume and it brings a smile to your face.
  
  The first thing you do checking into a hotel is to ask for a lot of extra towels.
  
  Are there anymore little, subtle hints that divulge a swinger, please feel free to add your own in the comments section.
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  Maya Fuller on April 24, 2015 at 3:55 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2831
  
  B. Sensory A Revolutionary Vibrator
  
  Erotic reading has just got a whole lot better, ladies! Enter a whole new erotic reading experience with, an upcoming French app that syncs a vibrator to erotic short stories.
  
  One thing is for sure; we don’t read erotica because of their great plots or their literary brilliance. We read them because of the way they get us all hot and bothered!
  
  This sex toy syncs with an erotica app so you can read while it vibrates. Smutty erotic serves a purpose, it’s to stimulate your sex drive so you’re ready for a roll in the hay with your partner, or take matters into your own hands.
  
  A French company has created an app that syncs its egg-shaped vibrator with erotic short stories so you can get off while you read. Does this sound like the best vibrator yet?
  
  How does it work? Using your tablet or smart phone, you’ll chose an erotic story to read. When you get to a steamy scene you can shake, caress, or breath on your device to activate vibration patterns chosen by the author to match what you’re reading. Hot blooded French publishers – La Musardine, J’ai Lu, and Editions Livrior have teamed up with the app – don’t sweated it the stories will be soon available in English too.
  
  Meanwhile, if you think this is a vibrator you’d like to have, you can watch this video that explains the whole exotic reading experience.
  
  Only the French could come up with an erotic-reading vibrator. Oh la la!!
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  Maya Fuller on March 31, 2015 at 11:09 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2662
  
  Party Exit Strategies
  
  You have been invited to a private swingers party. You are thrilled and feel privileged. This is the first time you are going and never met the hosts.
  
  Sometimes swingers parties are a bit of a hit and miss, some live up to your expectations and some don’t. Remember there are many kinds of swingers, and your ideal isn’t the same as someone else’s.
  
  Then, what happens in case that you end up feeling uncomfortable and you feel you just can’t get your mind into the same space as everybody at the party. It could be that you aren’t getting the right vibes from the people at the party, or the party is not cracked up to be what you thought it’d be and you want to get out of there pronto.
  
  Don’t panic, it happens to the best of us, and now you need an escape plan. Read on for a few suggestions that will get you out without you looking like a total dud.
  
  #1 Be Honest
  
  This is the most obvious way out; politely tell the host that you aren’t getting in the mood and you are going to head off. Thank your host for the invite and make your leave.
  
  #2 Sick card
  
  You might feel slightly rude just saying you are not getting in the mood and wish to leave. There’s always the sick card, you can say you are not feeling well, could be a tommy bug that has just set in, you’re running a temperature, just think back to high school and use the same zest when you are explaining yourself to the host.
  
  #3 Escape artist
  
  Then there’s the sly, stealth option, creep your way to escape if you are really spooked out and find that your back is against the wall and this is the only possible way out. Have a wonder around the house and find an escape route or just say you forgot something in your car and need to go get it only never returning.
  
  If this sounds like you’re back in high school, it’s because it can turn out to be that way sometimes. This is all part of the fun of becoming a swinger. All these fun and games is what keeps us, swingers, looking young.
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  Maya Fuller on March 31, 2015 at 6:31 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2655
  
  Reasons Why Some Women Like Gangbangs
  
  There are many reasons why a lot of women love gangbangs. A gangbang gives the woman an opportunity to sexually engage with more than one man at the same time. Women can be greedy, selfish and make the night all about her pleasure.
  
  Not all women are made equal, and some will love gangbangs and others will not like the idea. But ask those women who love it and they will list many reasons why they love gangbangs. Below are some of the reasons why some women love gangbangs:
  
  1. Attention is all on them:
  
  These women are very confident with their bodies and open to any sexual experience. To be the centre of attention for a number of men is a huge turn on for some women. To know that every male in the room wants to ravish her, to feel desired is extremely arousing for some women. Add to this is that women have multiple points of pleasure and one man only can’t satisfy her as many man can. The experience is a total sensory overload, in the best possible way.
  
  2. Multiple orgasms
  
  A woman’s chance of orgasming during sex increases greatly. In many cases, women do not experience orgasm through penetration but in the case of gangbangs a woman might experience more than just penetration orgasm, she will also have multiple orgasms.
  
  3. Fulfill some fantasies
  
  Some women fantasise about having double penetration and when better than during a gangbang. There are times when men suffer from stage fright and can’t perform. In a situation such a gangbang there are plenty of men to step in when one is worn out or suffers from anxiety performance. In a gangbang women can experience many sex acts in one night.
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  Maya Fuller on March 31, 2015 at 3:55 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2588
  
  RedHotPie TV – Our Secret Spot teaser
  
  It’s an itsby-bitsy, teenie-weenie, Our Secret Spot teaser!!!
  
  Again, RHP TV has the insider knowledge on the hottest clubs around Oz… keep an eye out for the extended cut, coming soon!
  
  Secret Spot has all the ingredients to potentially be the best swingers club in Australia. Where fun, singles and couples meet to mingle and much more….
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  Maya Fuller on March 31, 2015 at 3:38 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2586
  
  Open Relationships Core Rules
  
  Are you at the crossing roads of a major relationship makeover?
  
  Have you been talking about how brilliant it would be to enjoy an open relationship? To have the best of both worlds, enjoy a relationship with your wonderful partner but also sleep with other people?
  
  Before you take the plunge, you should know that open relationships vary greatly in their terms and conditions, each couple has a different take on what is OK and what is pushing the boundaries. These you need to discuss in detail and come to a full understanding what your comfort zones are as a couple.
  
  However, there are some rules that are invariable right across the boarder and everybody should abide. These are the basic rules you need to know to make open relationships work:
  
  Rule 1: Reason to become a swinger couple
  
  Your desire for other people should lie in your desire to expand and spice your sexual life and not because of your lack of fulfilment from each other. Becoming a swinger is not going to resolve your sexual or other issues, it might actually aggravate them. Your relationship needs to be healthy and strong when stepping into an open relationship.
  
  Rule 2: You and your partner are #1
  
  You and your partner always come first. You must always make sure that you are both in the same page, emotionally, physically and mentally. One expresses concern or discomfort everything should come to a stop, you always support each other no matter what.
  
  Rule 3: Set Your boundaries and respect them
  
  Set you boundaries and be very clear on them. It’s a contract between the two of you and it should be respected at all times. These boundaries are always re-negotiable, with more experience and your desire to experiment more you will find that you need to set new boundaries again.
  
  Rule 4: Jealousy
  
  Jealousy is a destructive, negative feeling and if you are the type that gets jealous easily you need to work out a way of dealing with it. However, if despite all your efforts jealousy continues to interfere with your enjoyment then maybe swinging is not for you.
  
  Rule 5: Safety
  
  Be safe and always use protection. Promiscuous sex is great but STI’s are grim.
  
  Rule 6: Don’t mix your friends
  
  Have friends for sex parties and friends for dinner parties. Don’t mix your worlds, otherwise you end up being that creepy couple trying to muck off with your strictly monogamous hosts.
  
  Rule 7: Re-negotiate boundaries
  
  Like any relationship, things evolve with time. Through your years on the lifestyle things change and it is therefore you keep your communication channels open. The boundaries you first started off with might be not suitable at a later stage.
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  Maya Fuller on March 30, 2015 at 2:05 pm · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #2561
  
  Good Reads on Lifestyle And Relationships.
  
  If you are an avid reader and interested in reading about the many types of relationships and the people who live it, books are a great way to have a window like look at these relationships. Whether you are in a swinging relationships or a newbie, looking for resources or just interested in reading about alternative life styles there are a books out there for you.
  
  Following are a few examples of literature with a small synopsis that might interest you.
  
  Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but Always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle
  
  This is a great read and a real eye opener of one man’s journey into the swinger lifestyle. This book pulls back the curtain on one of the most fascinating and least understood lifestyle. Daniel Stern recounts the ups and downs of his brief fling with an alternative sex life. Stern describes the group sex mentality and the rules to play by. Which are great tips for newbies or anyone looking for a partner or maintaining a relationship.
  
  Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality
  
  A must read for anybody interested in a non-monogamous lifestyle. If you have never read a book before, make this your exception. This book explains what human history teaches us about sex and couples.
  
  The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Avdentures.
  
  This is a great book that looks at non-monogamous relationship. This groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. This book discusses elements that are important to a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. How to discuss boundaries and respect them, resolve conflicts and define relationships on your own terms. It’s has some great advice for overcoming these hurdles all of which boil down to open and honest communication between all parties.
  
  The swinger Manual by Just Ask Julie
  
  After over a decade of giving advice and information on the Swinger Lifestyle, the advice columnist known as “Just ask Julie” has written a veritable “Lifestyle for Dummies” guide. This book addresses every aspect of swinging, covering just about every question that has ever been or hopes to be in an open relationship. She begins by answering such simple questions such as what different terminologies mean and attempts to define swinging and various other alternative relationship styles. She even discusses, from a broad perspective, how to decide if swinging is for you and what to do once you decide that it is. Those who are experienced in the lifestyle will find this book helpful, as well. Reminders of topics such as how to deal with jealousy, how to get the best results from your swinger personal ads, how to make the most out of your visits to swinger socials and clubs, and how to be an excellent host of your own parties are all included. It’s Lifestyle 101 in one simple to read guide. Happy Reading! Don’t forget to let us know what you’ve thought of these books in our comments section!
  
  Swinging for Beginners: An Introduction to the Lifestyle
  
  If you have just started and are fairly new in the swinging this is a great book. You will find information on all aspects of the Lifestyle, including; dating, what to wear, what to do at parties, single men, jealousy, threesomes, how to meet swingers and hoe to deal with it all.
  
  Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray And The Men That Love Them
  
  This book is a study on cuckold relationships. This sexual practice, a form of sexual nonmonogamy, is distinguished from swinging and polyamory in that the husband rarely seeks sexual contact outside the marriage except for participation in group sex with his wife and other men, while the wife is permitted and often encouraged to pursue unrestrained sexual encounters with other men.
  
  Please feel free to add to this list and tell us about your views on literature you found helped you understand the lifestyle better.
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  Maya Fuller on July 6, 2014 at 6:37 am · in reply to: Swinging Through The Decades #4699
  
  5 Other Non-Monogamous Relationships
  
  The mainstream media tends to focus on very specific type of non-monogamy – polyamory and open relationships mainly. However, there are 5 other non-monogamous relationships that tend to be ignored.
  
  Whether you are happily in a monogamous relationship or are in a non-monogamy realtionship, you will probably learn something from these examples of how people create options to put feminist values at the core of their relationships and reject oppressive expectations.
  
  Mainstream population is been shown that relationships can and do exist outside the constricted sociology construct that has been perpetuated for centuries.
  
  JOAMETTE GIL, illustartor, cartoonist, curator and podcaster has created this comic below that is about different ways of doing non-monogamy that don’t always get a lot of talk time.
  
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