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  Maya Fuller on November 13, 2023 at 4:23 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #8295
  
  5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships
  
  Non- monogamous refers to a relationship style that permits individuals to engage in physical, romantic, or sexual interactions with more than one person or be involved in multiple committed relationships.
  
  Traditional notions of exclusive relationships are evolving, giving way to consensual non-monogamy (CNM), where couples mutually agree to the possibility of having multiple romantic or sexual partners. Despite being more prevalent than commonly thought, CNM relationships, including swinging and polyamory, often face stigma and misconceptions. A prevailing stereotype suggests that these relationships are solely focused on sexual opportunities, with the assumption that individuals turn to CNM due to relationship problems.
  
  In reality, people are drawn to CNM for diverse reasons. These are the 5 reasons people want consensually non-monogamous relationships.
  
  1. Autonomy
  
  Couples seek the freedom to be their authentic selves without judgment, allowing for natural expressions of individuality.
  
  2. Sexuality
  
  CNM facilitates personal growth and exploration, recognizing that one partner may not fulfil all sexual and emotional needs. It provides avenues for exploring diverse sexual identities, kinks, and desires, enhancing overall satisfaction.
  
  3. Community
  
  CNM fosters the development of friendships, community building, and a sense of belonging. This connectivity strengthens relationships and supports psychological well-being by allowing partners to meet their needs with integrity.
  
  4. Relationship Growth
  
  CNM offers opportunities for personal and relational growth, allowing individuals to experience a variety of non-sexual and sexual activities without pressuring either partner. It deepens intimacy and connection.
  
  5. Practical Approach
  
  Opening up a relationship is seen as practical, especially when partners face challenges such as work or family demands. It allows both partners’ needs to be met, even in situations involving long-distance relationships or the exploration of shared fantasies.=
  
  6. Broad Psychological Fulfillment
  
  Beyond sex, CNM contributes to broader psychological fulfilment and the authenticity of self-expression. It also provides a platform for connecting with a like-minded community.
  
  In essence, consensual non-monogamy encompasses more than just sexual exploration; it encompasses psychological fulfilment, self-expression, and the creation of supportive communities.
  
  Featured photo by cottonbro studio by Pexels
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  Maya Fuller on June 1, 2022 at 11:39 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #8226
  
  What you need know when you enter an open relationship
  
  Over the years open relationships have become more accepted and mainstream. However, it takes work, respect, honest communication, and compromise to navigate an open relationship successfully. It is far from easy. What are the things to consider when entering an open relationship? Below is a list of a few things to consider.
  
  Open relationships – what are they
  
  It describes all forms of non-monogamous relationships. This can include swinging, which could mean casual sex or swapping, attending parties, or dating outside the primary relationship, either together or separately. Often swingers establish boundaries around being sexually intimate with others but not emotionally close. However, for those who align themselves with polyamory, it could mean having consensual relationships with more than one person that are both sexual and emotional.
  
  The success of an open relationship lies in honest communication and constantly checking on each other.
  
  Communication
  
  Opening your relationship to new ways of exploring intimacy is exciting. Before you approach your partner, it might be helpful to think about what an open relationship means to you.
  
  Once you understand what it means to you then you can start a dialogue with your partner. Give them an opportunity to think about what an open relationship means to them. At a later stage have an open conversation about your boundaries.
  
  Set boundaries that are flexible
  
  Nothing is set in stone and allowing room for change is a great idea. Talk about your deal-breakers, discuss what you’d like to try and what type of fantasies you like to try out. Will you date together or separately? While you may not know how you feel about being open until you try it, it is a good idea to say how you feel early on. Honest communication is the only way being open is going to work.
  
  Where to begin
  
  Once you spoke to your partner about opening your relationship in a way that is comfortable and feels right for both of you; how do you start an open relationship.
  
  First, it is normal to feel excited and nervous at the same time. Be open and flexible and take your time to understand this new dynamic in your relationship. One approach to gaining more knowledge about open relationships is to read books about them. Books like Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, More Than Two, and Sex and Dawn all explore how non-monogamy can be different; they provide more information and different perspectives than your own.
  
  Ultimately, there is no one way to conduct an open relationship. Each and every open relationship is unique and catered for two individuals. It must suit both your desires and your comfort zone. Take time and communicate with your partner and build an open relationship that works for both of you.
  
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  Maya Fuller on July 22, 2020 at 6:03 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7984
  
  5 Tips for a great video date
  
  While video chat might not have been something you may have considered before to meet someone, video chatting is quickly becoming the norm.
  
  Video chat can be pretty good. You get to see the real person, establish if there is chemistry and a connection before the lead gets cold. Most important, be naughty online while keeping things safe and when you eventually meet in RL, it’s going to be mind-blowing.
  
  Investing time in a video chat before a hook-up/ date might pay off. Here are five tips for a successful video chat.
  
  1. Practice & rehearse
  
  Why not take it as a challenge and practice on friends till video chatting feels more natural. It’s a chance to learn about your best ‘angles’ and best lighting that compliments you. Last, consider your backdrop. Make sure whatever you wear looks good against the background of your chosen location. The last thing you want to do is blend into it and look like a floating head.
  
  Like photography, you have to experiment and learn what works best for you.
  
  2. It’s less awkward than you expect – try it out
  
  Be honest and tell the other person that you aren’t used to video chat and need to get the hang of it. Start with telling them you want to say a quick hi, see what they look like and hang up soon after. You might want to video chat for a bit longer, who knows? The best thing about video chat it’s infectious, once you start using it, it becomes pretty easy quickly. Break that barrier today and get on chatting with people you like.
  
  3. You get to see each other’s’ appearance and compatibility
  
  Video chatting is a great way to further screen your date, save you time and the awkwardness of meeting someone you don’t feel chemistry or compatible with.
  
  Clearly, much like in RL put an effort on your appearance. So, look your best.
  
  4. A faster way to get to know someone
  
  Another advantage of video chat is that you’ll find that your match might give you a chance on video rather than in RL meeting, particularly true with women. Simply because there’s less risk for things to get awkward. Yes, they can just ‘hang up’ on you and ghost you.
  
  Video chat gives you an opportunity to warm up to each other before you actually meet. And then that first meeting in person, when and if that does happen, feels like it’s coming from a more informed place.
  
  5. Keep the chat short
  
  You want them to come back for more. So set a 10-minute mark and ask open-ended questions. These types of questions make the conversation fun and get your match invested. Here are some examples:
  
  What’s something you are passionate about?
  
  Tell us something that is on your bucket list you haven’t done it?
  
  Somewhere you want to travel but you haven’t been to?
  
  What’s the most fun holiday/ travel location you have been on? Why?
  
  Keep your chat positive, negativity in a conversation is a mood killer (nobody got the time for that). Another tip, wrap things up on a high note, that way they will be looking forward to interacting with you again.
  
  Really, once you start video chatting you will never look back. You cut out all the small talk, the back and forward messaging and will start enjoying safer, deeper connections through video dates.
  
  Once you get to this stage and you feel like you want to take it to the next level, check the next article – How to sex up your video chat.
  
  Share your best tips for a successful video chat and some bloopers in the comments below…
  
  Image source: Unspalsh
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  Maya Fuller on September 17, 2018 at 5:51 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7786
  
  The changing face of modern relationships
  
  A growing number of couples are choosing to experience the lifestyle and not strictly live by the traditional format of relationships -monogamy. The changing face of modern relationships is challenging traditional views.
  
  Instead, couples are investigating alternative relationship models. They are choosing to have multiple partners or significant others over a lifetime. Because traditional relationship formulas aren’t always fulfilling or suitable and certainly are not for everyone. Recently, Scarlett Johansson, a high profile actress, was quoted saying that she thinks it isn’t “natural” to be a monogamous person.
  
  Related article: Good reads on Lifestyle and relationships
  
  This, of course, doesn’t mean that monogamy, as it has existed through the ages will cease to exist, certainly not. Monogamy will continue to exist as it is the ideal relationship model for some.
  
  So here are all the different ways to do relationships – to explore love and sex.
  
  1. Swinging
  
  The focus of a swinging relationship is to meet up with other people for recreational sex, although deep bonds and friendships can develop.
  
  Swingers are couples who decide to open their relationships to others. They are couples who are deeply in love and emotionally connected and they do not value sex in the same way their monogamous peers do. Whom believe sex is an extension by which their relationship will benefit when it’s open to experimentation, alone or together. They believe that their sexual needs are better met when open.
  
  Anyone can take part in swinging whether you’re single, or in a relationship. But before you start, you have to be able to talk about certain things to your partner – boundaries must be set. Rules put in place. Limits agreed to.
  
  Because of the intimate nature of the lifestyle activity demands a level of trust and support to enjoy the benefits.
  
  2. Polyamorous
  
  With polyamory, deep relationships are the focus, although the sex is often fun. They are open to having, more than one romantic relationship at a time, with the knowledge and consent of all their partners.
  
  3. Open marriage
  
  It means there is a certain flexibility in this marriage where some open marriages lean toward poly with deeper ties to lovers. And other marriages lean toward swinging with more fleeting sexual encounters.
  
  4. Monogamish
  
  This is a relationships style where the couple involved allow themselves a certain degree of sexual exploration, perhaps kissing or light play. A light manner in which they can re-oxygenate their relationship. Monogamish relationship differ greatly with some couples negotiate terms that include “only one night stands” or “when we travel,” while others have a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy.
  
  5. Everything in between
  
  These are relationships that are in and out of all kinds of constructs. They could be married and dating, have friends with benefits, sometimes swinging and so on. A ground that many relationships find themselves going through, sometimes to find their preferred relationship module and sometimes because they enjoy moving from one to the other.
  
  In all these relationships, the only ties that bind the couples are respect, honesty, openness and kindness. Obviously also rules and boundaries agreed on to protect their core relationship. Not to forget as with all relationships, it takes a lot of hard work and communication to achieve success. Practising open communication so both people in the relationship feel that their needs are being met is absolutely important in any given relationship.
  
  It’s time to recognise that one size doesn’t fit all. And if you do not fit neatly into any of these relationship categories, nobody really does. So be just honest and authentic and do it your way. The important thing is not what we’re doing in our relationships but that we’re on the same page about what we want the relationship to look like.
  
  Which is the type of relationship you are happiest in? How do you do your relationship?
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  Maya Fuller on August 15, 2018 at 4:48 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7781
  
  5 things to try when you are in a sex rut
  
  Boring sex happens to all of us. Remember even the happiest of couples go through cycles. Fear not your relationship is not in the brinks of a breakup or doomed forever. Just because you’re not in sync or your sexual desires are not inline, it’s just the way thing roll sometimes. Dry spells happen to the best of us and it’s absolutely normal.
  
  After a while, even great sex might become routine and feel mechanical and boring because it’s always by the same route. Or sometimes is because you keep missing each other when the mood strikes.
  
  Good news is that this sex rut you’re going through doesn’t have to be permanent. In fact, there are a ton of things you can do if you are experiencing a sex rut.
  
  To troubleshoot your rut, here are 5 things to try when you are in a sex rut:
  
  1. Communication
  
  Great sex comes from great communication. To solve a problem, you need to talk about it. To explore new sexual grounds again you need to first talk about it. First to gauge interest, to set boundaries and to express satisfaction or dissatisfaction.
  
  2. Share your fantasies
  
  So don’t be afraid to share some sexual fantasies with one another. Try a little kinky sex, bondage or go to your first swingers party. Or a sexual fantasy can just be about trying a new position or getting your partner to pay more attention to a certain erotic zone.
  
  3. Masturbate together
  
  It might sound silly but try it out. Masturbating together will open you up to learning both your turn-ons. Put on an erotic movie or read an erotic book. This is a great way to open up about some of your fantasies and to watch and show each other how you get off. Learn what turn-ons your partner has.
  
  4. Switch it up
  
  Change the routine a bit. Any element of surprise will send your adrenaline racing. Initiate sex in the shower or while cooking, anywhere but the routine place which often is the bedroom.
  
  5. Try sexting
  
  We live in the era of tech and as such make use of it to steam your sex life. Sexting and dirty talk are a great way to get each other in the mood. Get things started before you get in the bedroom, lubricate the lust before getting in the bedroom.
  
  Again do not press the panic button if your sex life stales a bit. Our mood and libido go through cycles so give it time, use your imagination. sex ruts happen to all of us and you can get absolutely out of it.
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  Maya Fuller on June 25, 2018 at 4:13 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7732
  
  A complete beginner’s guide to fisting
  
  If you haven’t tried fisting yet, you’ll be mystified and little intimidated by it. Fisting has a long history as a completely radical sex act and is also an incredibly stigmatised act. Here’s a complete beginner’s guide to fisting.
  
  Is it safe, will it hurt and will it actually feel good?
  
  Provided you do things the right way, fisting can be very pleasurable. With plenty of lube and patience, fisting is anything but scary, and it’s so much more than some weird sexual act. You will experience a level of intimacy and trust that only adds to your whole sexual experience. Fisting can be totally fun. It’s really just one of many ways to connect and bond with a sex partner.
  
  Fisting feels good and is one of the many ways to penetrate a partner that doesn’t include a penis.
  
  Here’s a comprehensive fisting guide to get you started with your fisting fun!
  
  Here are 10 things to know before you try fisting:
  
  1. Use a lot of lube and a lot of patience.
  
  Patience is key. Fisting isn’t something that can be rushed and the fist can’t just be pummelled into your partner. Take it slow…
  
  2. Take it slow
  
  Fisting shouldn’t be done too quickly, especially if the receiver isn’t that turned on yet. Communicate as much as possible so you know when your receiving partner is ready for more and when they want you to stop moving. Communicate every step of the way, especially if you’re new. Experiment with different movements, but listen to your partner.
  
  3. Use lots of lube
  
  If you think you’ve put enough lube on both your hand and your partner’s genitals, apply more. When it comes to fisting it’s impossible to use too much lube. So buy more lube than you think you need.
  
  4. Trim your nails & no jewellery
  
  Make sure your nails are short, rounded, and filed, and your hands are recently washed clean and free of cuts, abrasions and rough edges (because duh, it’s going inside a body). You can also use latex or nitrile gloves, and if you really don’t want to cut your nails. reduces the risk of accidentally scratching your partner internally and also makes lubricant last longer.
  
  5. Make sure your partner is aroused & relaxed before starting
  
  This is definitely not a sex act where you want to rush foreplay, so take your time, and use smaller toys or even just a few fingers to get them wet and aroused. Basically, the more aroused she is, the bigger, wider, and wetter she’ll become, which will make it a lot easier to get your whole fist inside her when you get to that point.
  
  6 It’s probably going to take a long time
  
  Especially true when it’s your first time. Engage in lots of foreplay and use one finger then the next and so on. Allow the fisted partner to have time to adjust every time you add more. Take your time.
  
  7. Start fisting
  
  Start
  
  Start with one finger. Slowly work up to two, three, then four fingers, then, if she says she’s ready, press your fingers together – make like you’re imitating a duckbill ( as in the image above) to make your hand as narrow and small as possible. Then begin to insert your hand, palm facing up and thumb folded in. Width matters way more than length here.
  
  8. Once inside, what next?
  
  Now that you’re inside your partner, form a tight fist (as in the image above), keeping your thumb tucked in. You can now experiment by rotating your wrist gently, making small movements with your fingers, and rock your knuckles up and down as mentioned before, and feel free to keep reapplying that lube when she needs it.
  
  9. Slowly remove your fist
  
  Do not yank that fist out. After your partner orgasms, slowly and carefully work your hand out. Open up your fits and slowly slide your hand out. in short, leave her slowly and gently by reversing all the instructions you followed to get in there in the first place.
  
  10. Some or the whole fist
  
  Some people aren’t able to receive a full fist because their anatomy just can’t accommodate an entire hand. So listen to them and go as far as your partner is comfortable with and gives them pleasure.
  
  Done right, fisting can be an amazing experience. I find the physical sensations to be really intense and unusual.
  
  Fisting is one of the most tragically misunderstood sex acts there are, which is a shame. But with plenty of patience, care and lube, practically anyone—no matter who you are or what kind of equipment you’re working with—can have fun doing it.
  
  The sensation of fullness and the pressure it provides is amazing. Fisting can be incredibly intimate and erotic.
  
  She likes the feeling of “fullness” and pressure when she’s being penetrated, and nothing else she’s tried has been able to give her a comparable feeling.
  
  As with any sex, fisting is not for everyone and it’s totally ok.
  
  Have you tried fisting? Have you some more tips to add? Let us know in the comments below.
  
  Credit feature image: Flickr
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  Maya Fuller on March 26, 2018 at 6:23 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7694
  
  Why you should stop shaming people who have many sexual partners
  
  Seriously, enough of shaming people who enjoy their sexual freedom and like to express it with having many sexual partners.
  
  Despite living in an era where sex isn’t just for married people, where as long as you’re careful about consent and contraception, you should be able to enjoy sex as much as you want to. Surprisingly, in our modern age, people are still shaming those with multiple sexual partners.
  
  According to a recent research, from Superdrug Online Doctor, suggests that we are predisposed to slut-shaming and judge people based on how many people they’ve had sex with.
  
  The research showed over 1000 people from Europe and US pictures of models, alongside information about how many people they bedded and then measured how their perception changed of these models. With just that information, respondents were able to discern how trustworthy, honest, intelligent, kind, and attractive they believed a person to be.
  
  Interestingly, the models’ sexual inhibitions had a great bearing on how respondents viewed them. Models who had slept with just one person were regarded as honest, kind and trustworthy by 32% of men and 34% of women. However, when the number of sexual partners went up to 18, only 6% of men said that the model seemed trustworthy, compared to 15% of women. So men are less stigmatised by having lots of sex. Shocker.
  
  We can easily say that respondents are pretty judgemental since all they had to go with was what the models looked like and how many sexual partners they had and yet they were quick to judge. How many people one sleeps with is not an indicator of whether one is nice or nasty, reliable or trustworthy or anything else for that matter. It ‘s just an indication of how sexually attracted they are to others and how often they choose to have sex.
  
  Let us remind you that we’re in 2018 – an age of sex parties and polyamory; Dan Savage and Ann Summers.
  
  This June will mark the 20 years since Sex in the City came out, shocking audiences with its depiction of women who enjoyed sex, made an effort to go get it and used men for their sexual satisfaction:
  
  [embed]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH9O4lYyRuk[/embed]
  
  It’s then surprising that in this day and age, we’re still perceiving women who bed more than a half a dozen men as less trustworthy and honest than those who sleep with one person, if we go by this research findings.
  
  Sex is the only area where we feel the need to tell people they are doing something wrong. You do not, for example, tell a Foodie, that they eat at too many restaurants. Or tell music lovers that they should limit where they go. Yet, we feel entitled to tell others how many people they owe to sleep with. Odd, isn’t it? When it comes to sex, you can enjoy it but only a little bit.
  
  When it comes to sex generally people are more reticence. Enjoy sex but not too much, be good at it but don’t practice it too often; be confident with sex and empowered by sex but not with too many people.
  
  Why do we have this attitude with sex?
  
  Looking back at human history there’s evidence supporting these skewed views of sex. Three factors of the modern world have contributed to this. Capitalism – if your offspring is to inherit your lands ensure that they actually are yours. Patriarchy – made sex only about procreation, men must orgasm while women just need to acquiesce. And religious indoctrination convinced everyone that something so natural is sinful which shamed us into compliance. As a result of these, we’re locked into a damaging cycle of judgement and shame when it comes to sex, develop double standards and possible attitudes that end relationships.
  
  We are different in what we like in sex and how much sex we like to have, for some anonymous sex is fulfilling, others monogamous relationships is their thing and others open their relationship up to new sexual adventures.
  
  One thing is for sure, the more we unfairly judge by imposing archaic social and moral norms on people, the fewer people there are going to be out there with confidence, self-knowledge to make good sexual partners. This is not going to help when trying to have long healthy sexual relationships.
  
  So, yes we should admire swingers, singles and those willing to subvert regressive ideals by being open and honest about their enjoyment of sex and the number of people they’ve had it with should be admired, not shamed.
  
  Swingers, singles and people in open relationships, who are more open about their sex lives are less likely to judge others by their number of sexual partners and because they are less wrapped around archaic sexual views, they are confident and knowledgeable to choose better sexual and romantic partners.
  
  Having more sexual partners does not make you untrustworthy, quite the contrary, you are more confident in what you like and who you like sexually. It’s societal norms, especially in women’s cases, force people not to speak the truth about their number of sexual partners.
  
  H/T Metro
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  Maya Fuller on January 2, 2018 at 5:22 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7651
  
  Want a blessed and prosperous year full of sultry, sexy, and ultra-satisfying lovemaking and sex? Here are five sex resolutions to make 2018 plenty, satisfying and a great year of sex.
  
  1. Spend more time on foreplay
  
  When done right, foreplay can make sex even better, building anticipation, teasing and explosive sexual tension. As you know the more tension builds up, the sweeter the release when you finally give it to her.
  
  2. Go down in her
  
  Oral sex is an art every man should master. Even though you might be a master at it, are going down on her as often as she would like you too. If she gives you BJ on the regular is only fair you return the favour.
  
  3.Talk Dirtier
  
  Dirty talk is hot and often underestimated, it takes your bedroom shenanigans from meh to hot. Tell her how sexy she looks, how you like touching her, how good she feels, how good she tastes, how much you want her.
  If you need more inspiration, here is …
  
  4 Try something new
  
  Try something new this year, a new position, get a little bit kinkier or freaky, get creative and have fun with it. Hey, let your freak flag fly.
  
  5 Communicate and do some listen
  
  They key to having better sex is communication and your ability to listen. Listen to your partner and communicate with them.
  
  If you hear her say: “I like that.” Or ” Don’t Stop” then you continue doing what you were doing. If there are things you want to try, sit down and talk to her about it.
  
  Image credit: Tumblr
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  Maya Fuller on December 21, 2017 at 12:46 pm · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7633
  
  Xmas Boobs Making Festivities Better
  
  How could we make this Christmas feel fresh and new, while still sticking to the theme of celebrating our bodies?
  
  We have found the answer: Xmas Boobs making festivities better.
  
  While we can’t guarantee that these are Santa-approved, they’re definitely Swingers Academy-approved, and that’s all you need, right?
  
  These Xmas boobs are one way to guarantee a place on the naughty list.
  
  This festive craze sees women decorate their boobs to look like reindeer on Instagram. Many covering their nipples with red diamante studs, red bows, pasties or tinsel before applying googly eyes and felt antlers. Let’s take a look:
  
  in a few days rudolph is comming ❤️ #reindeerboobs #rudolphtherednosedreindeer @anike_ekina_official
  
  A post shared by A N I K E E K I N A (@anike_ekina_official) on Nov 30, 2017 at 8:59am PST
  
  I demand to know why this trend is called reindeer boob and not cariboob #reindeerboob A post shared by Jess (@epicfaul) on Dec 13, 2017 at 6:52pm PST
  
  At our Christmas party. #bjscabanabar #bestie #christmasboob #uglysweater #merrychristmas
  
  A post shared by Ratchet Barbie (@tiffany_carlo) on Dec 20, 2015 at 8:30pm PST
  
  ho. ho. ho. holiday 2017 #reindeerboob #merryxmas #thoseeyelashestho #tistheseason A post shared by Leah (@wicket14) on Dec 13, 2017 at 12:20pm PST
  
  “Rudolf the red-nosed reindeer, had a very…” finish the song saw the trendy pics popping up and thought it would be fun! Happy Holidays everyone! Pop those boobies out and pop that champagne to celebrate!
  
  A post shared by Anka (@anka_adventures) on Dec 17, 2017 at 3:04pm PST
  
  #reindeerboob
  
  A post shared by Kimmy Mac (@littlekimmy99) on Dec 4, 2017 at 1:55pm PST
  
  It’s definitely better than those ugly Christmas jumpers and surely sexier. It has our vote. Merry Christmas
  
  Feature image paraelesofficial
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  Maya Fuller on December 4, 2017 at 2:35 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7619
  
  Now, what are Digisexuals?
  
  Prepare for the rise of digisexuals. Now, what are digisexuals? It’s a new term coined recently by this published paper in Sexual and Relationship Therapy. With technological advancements and new adaptations of these, many people will come to identify as ‘digisexuals’ – people whose primary sexual identity comes through the use of technology.
  
  What this means is that, In the near future, a significant number of people will forgo human sex for robot sex. With technology becoming more immersive, sophisticated and appealing, many people will find their experience with technology integral to their sexual identity. Moreover, some people will come to prefer robot sexual experiences to human sexual interactions. As a result, researchers suggest a new label for people who find these tech-experiences integral to their sexual identity – ‘digisexuals’.
  
  There are two identifiable categories of ‘digisexuals’. The first one is marked by technology that mediates a connection between human partners—think live sex chat sites, sex toys that allow users to “feel” each other virtually, and even Internet dating sites. All of which we are guilty of indulging in at various degrees.
  
  And the second category of digisexualities, which still emerging, is where no human partner is needed in the sexual experience, only the technology itself (robot). There are already numerous cases of early adaptation of robots as a means to fulfil sexual desire. One such example is a married man, who is in a sexual relationship with a robot. We also have the case of Zheng Jiajia, a Chinese artificial intelligence engineer who earlier this year married Yingying, a robot he built.
  
  These robots in the future can be customized to people’s individual sexual needs, which means robots will be able to do and fulfil certain sexual fantasies a human partner might not be able to.
  
  Researchers believe ‘digisexual’ will soon be a common new sexual identity, regardless of how we may feel about it, “Clinicians must be prepared for the challenges and benefits associated with the adoption of such sexual technologies.” Another aspect that will emergy soon is discrimination against ‘digisexuals’ because of their unusual life choice and sexual preference.
  
  The future is gonna be so wild.
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  Maya Fuller on October 6, 2017 at 1:57 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7595
  
  Your Healthy Sex Lives Matter
  
  Sex is great. It makes you feel good, promotes confidence and better health.There have been lots of studies describing the health benefits of sex. Want to clear your complexion, boost your mood, and cut your risk of cancer, heart disease, relieve pain, reduce stress and other health hazards? A little loving can improve your general health but of course, do not throw caution to the wind! Your healthy sex lives matter and as such everytime you have sex be responsible.
  
  We all like to have long enjoyable sex lives and to achieve this we have to put some thought on how to protect ourselves against STIs. Our friends at Carvanka have put a graphic together to show us how serious we need to get in changing our attitudes to safe and protected sex. We quote Carvanka’s statement:
  
  “The World Health Organisation announced in 2017 that over 78 million individuals are infected annually with gonorrhoea due to decreasing condom use and poor detection rates or failed treatment. Worryingly, the WHO also indicated that the STI is showing signs of antibiotic resistance as it develops into more of a superbug. They advise that more needs to be done in terms of gonorrhoea prevention and of course more research into the development of more advanced antibiotics and in the longer term, they talk of the need to work on gonorrhoea vaccine development.”
  
  Enjoy a satisfying sex life with responsible sexual encounters. Keep you and others safe and healthy and avoid STIs ruining your sexual pleasure.
  
  The graph below released by the USA centre for disease control and prevention points to the fact that between 2014 and 2015, chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhoea reached an all-time high. With the 15-24 bracket recording higher in chlamydia and gonorrhoea. This is the demographic that is sexually more active and have more relaxed attitudes toward casual sex. It might also indicate too that they are more aware of the importance of regular testing but is likely a combination of both.
  
  Risk Factors for Acquiring an STI
  
  Anyone who is sexually active risks exposure to an STI; factors that may increase the risk are indicated below
  
  Most Common STIs
  
  Top 5 Developed Countries with Highest STI Rate*
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  Maya Fuller on July 19, 2017 at 2:32 pm · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7514
  
  Rise of the Sexbots – glimpsing into the future
  
  The rise of sexbots is most definitely going to change the facet of human sexuality. They will have both a positive and negative impact.
  
  There are already doll brothels operating in South Korea, Japan and Spain, while the first robotic oral sex coffee shop opened in Paddington, west London, last year.
  
  Sexbots have rapidly moved into our social fabric which leads to people raising questions.
  
  Questions that have no easy answers and are permeated with some moral concerns.
  
  Will sexbots increase the objectification of women? Possibly, yes. Sexbots could fulfil sexist male sexual fantasies.
  
  Will paedophiles want to safely act out their fantasies in a no-harm sexual safe space with their ageless sexbot? Most likely, and in this aspect, it could be positive.
  
  Will others engage in rape fantasies? Likely too.
  
  Let’s take a look at the story about Masayuki Ozaki, a man who loves his sex doll. Ozaki claims that his sex doll is so much better than his wife. He also reported that “whatever problems I have, Mayu is always there waiting for me. I love her to bits and want to be with her forever.”
  
  The world of ‘Westworld’ sexbots is here
  
  Although the existence of sexbots leaves us with a sense of unease, not all is gloom. Sexbots will decidedly have some positive influence in the lives of the disabled community, as well as with people with a host of sexual difficulties. Sexbots could be used to keep the elderly company in care homes and help couples enjoy long distances sexual relationships.
  
  In the very near future, sexbots could be used not just as a fetish, but for sexual therapy and as companions for lonely, disabled or older people.
  
  Interesting to see what the future holds for humans and sexbots…..
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  Maya Fuller on June 29, 2017 at 2:22 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7496
  
  Best Bisexual Movies You Must Watch
  
  It’s really hard to almost impossible to find really good bisexual porn in the mainstream. What follows is a selection of a few of the best bisexual movies you must watch that are out there. They are bold at presenting bisexuality in all its entirety – where both men and women are seen enjoying each other without inhibitions.
  
  Mainstream porn is full of threesomes and group scenes, generally with the man or men having sex with the woman or many women. With women having sex with each other, but never the men having sex with each other.
  
  When it comes to male sexuality, men’s bisexuality is still taboo. The idea for men to desire to have sex with both and all genders is still not accepted by the mainstream.
  
  Why is that?
  
  Mainly because it’s perceived as un-masculine and centuries of bisexuality erasure have led people to this road of confusion and denial.
  
  Before the month of Pride is over, we’ve rounded up the best films featuring bisexuality. They are only trailers of the movies and if that’s the kind of porn you are into – enjoy them with your partner free of guilt:
  
  1. We know you’re watching, a movie about voyeurism and bisexuality, set in Brasil where the weather is hot and people strip off naked and leave their windows open for anyone to enjoy……
  
  We know you’re watching
  
  2. Pansexuals, a movie about people enjoying attraction regardless of gender. Letting go of inhibitions and societal norms. Where bisexuality is strongly at play between all sexes.
  
  Pansexuals
  
  3. The Ultimate Kink: This FF queer couple is looking to have a kinky fantasy fulfilled. They want to explore and experience what it is like to be with a man….
  
  The Ultimate Kink
  
  These porn movies present the variety that human sexuality can present and feature bisexuality. Since bisexuality is so often misunderstood, these movies shade light into how much fun it all can be if only we let ourselves feel, explore and experience our sexualities dis-attached from preconceptions.
  
  Feature pic credit: Bisexual dating site
  
  H/t ErikaLust
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  Maya Fuller on June 13, 2017 at 2:37 am · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7451
  
  Even in 2017, pubes are still an issue of debate.
  
  Amber Rose has been censored by Instagram staff for sharing an explicit picture containing full-frontal nudity, to promote her third annual SlutWalk.
  
  She shocked social media users when she posted a picture last Saturday showing her on a wooden staircase wearing only a bikini top and an open black coat, putting her heavily oiled-up body and nicely trimmed, soft bush on full display.
  
  The semi-nude pic only lasted about two hours before Instagram deleted it.
  
  But this isn’t just any nude pic. Amber Rose is bringing back the bush!
  
  Source Instagram: Amber Rose
  
  Pubic hair incites passionate debate from all sides of the issue, from the pube havers to pube waxers to people that love to have sex with women with lush pubes. It’s such a heated conversation that even celebrities get in on it. This time we have Amber Rose not beating about the bush to make possibly a statement of her own about pubs – to have them!
  
  A post shared by JohnSpencerLeach (@leachygram) on Jun 10, 2017 at 1:48pm PDT
  
  We must admit that Amber Rose’s nicely trimmed pubes look pretty darn sexy. But as with all things sexual and appetites for sex, to each their own. Everyone should rock whatever down there they want.
  
  Bring back the bush? What do you think dear readers, shaved or bush?
  Would you sport a bush? Do you find a nice trimmed bush is just as sexy as completely shaven? Let us know in the comments section below.
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  Maya Fuller on April 2, 2017 at 11:42 pm · in reply to: 5 Reasons People Want Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships #7355
  
  Nude travel On The Rise
  
  Nude travel is on the rise and we are all for it. Everything fun happens when clothes come off and we’re sure you agree.
  
  Would you consider a nude holiday, whether it’s going to a nudist resort or a cruise?
  
  Whether it’s sunbathing nude at the beach, dinning out or taking a cruise to some exotic island, some folks would rather do it in the nude.
  
  Apparently, more and more of us are letting go of any hang-ups and are feeling comfortable in the skin we’re in.
  
  The love for experiencing all things, almost all things, naked has resulted in a boom in nudist traveling. But it’s not all hedonistic sex parties, well, there’s certainly some of that. Let’s be realistic, a percentage of these lovely nudist holiday folks are swingers warming up for something a bit more….
  
  You can go on a nudist cruise or stay in a nudist hotel with hundreds of other clothes-haters. Some of these destinations may be swingers gatherings, check beforehand so you end up at the right place.
  
  Here are five vacations and activities you can do in the buff.
  
  1. Cruises
  
  Yup, that’s right, you can even take “the lifestyle” into international waters. Bon voyage!
  
  Bliss Cruise makes it easy for adventurous couples to enjoy time at sea by offering adult-only, full-ship charters that tour exotic locations from Florida to the Eastern and Western Caribbean. It attracts many open-minded groups such as lifestyle couples, nudists, voyeurs and exhibitionists as well as curious individuals looking to experience something different from the conventional cruise vacation
  
  A world class cruise isn’t complete without enchanting getaways. Bliss Cruise takes you to unforgettable ports in countries such as Mexico, Jamaica and Haiti, as well as, many other island locations.
  
  2. Swingers Resorts
  
  There are many great swinger resorts to choose from and the 4 top are listed below:
  
  Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica – Opened in 1976 as “Negril Beach Village”, Hedonism II (there used to be a I and III) is by far the most famous of the lot.
  
  Desire Resort & Spa — Cancun, Mexico
  Desire, which also has a location in Costa Rica, boasts “sensual jacuzzi lounges”, erotic workshops, and “sexy aqua fitness”.
  
  Chan Resort, Pattaya, Thailand
  
  Chan Resort claims to be the first hotel to allow nakedness in Thailand.
  
  On their site they have these words – “We believe in enjoying the sun fully, naked,… and the natural way.”
  
  Near the beach, the resort offers comfortable rooms, a glistening pool, a restaurant serving Thai and Western fare and friendly service.
  
  Temptation Resort – Cacun Mexico
  
  This resort was recently redone and is now a hot destination for the over 21 crowd in Cancun. Weekly events, great nightlife and lot’s of like-minded guests make this resort one of our favorites in Cancun. If you are looking for something new and different give Temptation Cancun a try.
  
  3. Nude dinning
  
  If you’re going to London, why not brave it and try out naked dinning? Dine in the nude at the clothing-optional Bunyad i restaurant. Patrons are handed robes and slippers before stepping into the dining room. You can choose to disrobe any time you like through your dinner.
  
  Bunyadi” means “fundamental, base, natural” in Hindi.
  
  London is not the only place offering naked dinning experience; there are a few around the world. In Japan, Tokyo – you have The Amrita, in Melbourne, Australia – you have The Noble Experiment and so on.
  
  4. Naked Yoga
  
  Naked yoga is a thing and is here to stay. This form of yoga is done without any clothes. There a naked yoga community in New York – The naked motion – where you can exercise in the nude. They encourage body positivity and offer participants a unique experience of freedom.
  
  In Perth, Australia, When Rosie Rees instructs nude yoga at The Twisting Peacock, she wants the class to think positively about the human body.
  
  One thing you find out for sure aside from a liberating feeling, is It’s easier to move without the restriction of clothes. Naked yoga is a great way for both women overcome body image issues, self-doubt, fears and shame.
  
  Why not try it out? Experience the world in the buff…….
  
  GetNakedAustralia, Instagram account is booming and a lot of people are sharing their naked travel pic with the world.
  
  Then you have models like Emily Ratajkowski going on a holiday in Mexico and showing the world she too enjoys soaking up the sun in the buff. If they are al doing it, why not you?
  
  La Sirena
  
  A post shared by Emily Ratajkowski (@emrata) on Mar 19, 2017 at 1:11pm PDT

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